A rewarding five days in Florida

October 29, 2014 • Posted in blindness, Braille, public speaking, travel, Uncategorized by

One woman at the Teaching Children About Blindness session I gave last Friday was a teacher trainer at Head Start in Tampa. That very morning she’d been told that a three-year-old who’d just enrolled is blind. “I have no idea what to tell the teachers to do with him,” she said. “I thought coming to hear you might be a good place to start.”

Another audience member taught sign language at a nursery school that regularly has teenagers who are blind come in as volunteers. She’d come to find out if there was some way to incorporate Braille in her preschool. Another audience member had taught at a school for the blind years ago. “I came just to hear what you have to say,” she said.

And so, here’s what I had to say: screw my presentation. We need to help this Head Start woman!

I'm happy. Baby bbKennedy's happy. Callie, not so much.

I’m happy. Baby Kennedy’s happy. Callie, not so much.

Okay, not really. What I actually said was, “How about we move our chairs and sit in a circle?” Everyone there had the handout I’d put together with lists of resources and ideas to teach children about blindness that they could read on their own when they got home, so instead of talking about that we all shared ideas and resources about how to include a child who is blind into a preschool classroom.

At the end of the hour the Head Start teacher trainer walked out armed with the Braille copy of Hanni and Beth: Safe & Sound that I’d brought along, and a list of names and email addresses others in the circle had come up with for her to contact for help. Most importantly, she left with reassurances from people in the room who had dealt with blindness before. “I bet you’ll be surprised at what fun this boy will be at Head Start,” the teacher who had taught at a school for the blind told her as she left. “You’ll all end up learning a lot.”

My reward for a successful session? I got to spend the rest of the weekend wining and dining and swimming and playing and… holding babies!

I have a niece and nephew in Florida, and both had daughters born this past year. My sisters Cheryl and Bev flew down with Whitney and me, and our brother-in-law Rick greeted us in their Orlando home with a very special dinner: Sloppy Joe’s made from Flo’s famous recipe. He even made red Jello with bananas, Flo’s signature dessert! His wife (and our sister) Marilee drove us miles and miles to visit their grandbabies

That's Whitney leaping into the water to chase the ball I just threw.

That’s Whitney leaping into the water to chase the ball I just threw.

Whitney was a trooper for the entire trip, whether squeezing under the seat in front of us on the airplane or curling at my feet in the front passenger seat of Marilee’s car. She didn’t mind sharing my attention with baby Callie and baby Kennedy, either. Her reward? Chasing tennis balls in my niece’s backyard pool.

Kim On October 29, 2014 at 5:20 am

Love the photo of Whitney diving. Her form is perfect with front paws together, ears flying back. My Chesapeake Bay Retriever used to love to jump into our pool to retrieve toys, making me laugh. And babies. Such joy on your face. So glad you could help the “Head Start woman”! You’re up late (or early?) posting…

bethfinke On October 29, 2014 at 7:38 am

Yes. Busted — couldn’t sleep last night, hard to come down from all that baby-holding. And you, my dear, are awake early to leave this comment. Thanks for doing so, especially for describing Whitney’s dive. Fun to picture her ears like that.

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Sheila A. Donovan On October 29, 2014 at 9:19 am

Glad you had a great time with family. Don’t you just LOVE babies?!

bethfinke On October 29, 2014 at 5:53 pm

I sure do!

Mel Theobald On October 29, 2014 at 9:22 am

Oh boy, that sounds like fun…I mean the part about chasing balls in the pool. Lucky Whitney. Beth, every time you write about food, it makes me hungry. MMMMMM…sloppy joes and banana laced jello. Is it good for breakfast? Any more recipes from Flo?

Good job with the babies and teachers, too.

bethfinke On October 29, 2014 at 5:44 pm

Oh, Mel, you always write such sweet –and fun –comments. Especially like your wording on the “banana-laced Jello.”

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Monna Ray On October 29, 2014 at 5:39 pm

Beth,

It was fun to hear about your trip. Now I suppose Whitney wants a winter vacation in Florida.

Is Monday our last class or is it the next week?

Monna

bethfinke On October 29, 2014 at 5:48 pm

Oh, yes, Whitney could spend her entire day –her entire lifetime –chasing balls in water. But as we all know, she has an important job to do. And no –November 3 is not our last Monday memoir-writing class. We meet one more time after that in 2014: Monday, November 10 is our last meeting.

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Sue Doyle On October 29, 2014 at 7:41 pm

Beth & Mike…As I told you & Mike…love both your “things” ( not a techie so I dont really know what they are) but KUDOS, again… Callie & Kennedy? LOVE the names, being the Irish wench I am……..

bethfinke On October 29, 2014 at 8:49 pm

Huh? Sue Doyle? You’re Irish?!

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Ray Vegter On October 29, 2014 at 10:15 pm

Love the picture of Whitney! Enjoyed reading how you made a change of plans to help others. A life lesson for all of us.

Marilee On October 30, 2014 at 10:11 am

It was a great visit and so much fun. We squeezed so much into those few days. Glad you were able to reward Whitney – she really deserved a break:)

bethfinke On October 30, 2014 at 6:26 pm

Yes, and the main reason we were able to squeeze so much in was due to your advance planning… and your driving skills! THANKS, Mare. _____

Nancy B On November 1, 2014 at 11:26 am

Don’t know what I like better, the joy in your face holding those babies or Whitney’s perfect dive pic! Wish I could see Whit in action.

bethfinke On November 1, 2014 at 11:39 am

We’re coming down to CU in a few weeks –if you can come up with an enclosed space maybe we can let Whitney and her cousin Hanni run around… _____

Julie On November 4, 2014 at 2:25 pm

WOW! I’d give Whitney a “10” for toe point! This Dog-Lady loves that pic! Perfect body alignment, and the ears — one up, one down — couldn’t be cuter! But the pure focus on Whitney’s face tells all: he WILL get the ball. Don’t try to stop him.

bethfinke On November 5, 2014 at 7:59 am

All credit to my sister and star photographer, ‘Cheryl May. She gets a10 for snapping this photo at just the right time! _____

Julie On November 4, 2014 at 2:26 pm

Oops: SHE! Whitney! She!

bethfinke On November 5, 2014 at 8:00 am

Whitney doesn’t mind — in fact, I think she rather likes having a name that suits a male or female. Harper feels the same way…

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Loreli On November 6, 2014 at 7:04 am

Over a decade ago I taught two children (two different years) who are ‘legally’ blind. After reading about your session I thought of what I did to get ready for them to be in my class. I was extremely fortunate to know someone who worked for the Commission for the Blind in my state and I also by coincidence knew her husband. She gave up her free time to speak with me before school even started. Both years were years of learning for me. I cannot even begin to tell you how it changed me as a person and as a teacher. Hats off to you Beth for changing up your session to help out.

Also I love Whitney’s photo.

bethfinke On November 6, 2014 at 8:29 am

Oh, Loreli, I do hope the woman who was at that session follows my blog now, she will be so encouraged by this comment. Of course, as you must know, once school is in session teachers have little time to do things like follow blogs! What a difficult, overwhelming, underappreciated and (I hope!) rewarding job.

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Deborah Darsie On November 11, 2014 at 1:14 am

I imagine that learning session was one of the most effective for the ‘Head Start Lady’. Adaptability is what learning is all about.

And I loved the joy on your face as you were holding the babies. Little bundles of potential…mischief, love, creativity, etc.

And the photo of Whitney’s joyous jump into the pool shows just how much joy and sheer dog-ness working dogs do get when they are on their break.

bethfinke On November 11, 2014 at 9:11 am

You’re right: so much joy!

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