Close your eyes and shoot

February 21, 2010 • Posted in blindness, Uncategorized, writing by

Anita with her little sister AnneMarie, Anita's #1 fan.

After hearing that my great-niece Anita had been invited to compete in a high school girl’s three-point tournament, I dug up an ESPN.com story about Matt Steven, a blind teenager who shoots free throws for his high school team.

Matt’s older brother Joe coaches the team, and he stands under the hoop to rap a cane on the rim whenever his little brother shoots. Matt never played a regular game until last year, when other teams (and the refs) agreed to allow him to shoot all the free throws during a particular tournament. He was 4-for-8 in his first game, and even the fans from the opposite team cheered when he hit his shots.

No one cheered during the second game, though. Matt missed all six attempts. His team was losing by one point with 10 seconds left when their best shooter — 6’4″ senior Ryan Haley — was fouled.

So while it was cute and all, having that blind boy shoot free throws, well, with the game on the line of course the team’s stud would take his place now to make these two last all-important shots. Or would he?

Haley really was going to shoot them, until he looked over at Matt on the bench. “And I thought, He comes to every game, he never misses a practice, he cheers us on. He deserves a shot. I mean, it’s everyone’s dream to make those shots.”

So out comes Matt. And for the first time, the St. Phil {opposite team} fans aren’t rooting for him. In fact, they look like they’d prefer that he shoot straight into the hot dog table. “That might have been the best moment of all for Matt,” recalls Joe. “For once, he was just normal.”

I know exactly how Matt felt. It’s nice to be complimented for the things I manage to do without being able to see – getting to the airport by myself, crossing traffic-ridden streets in Chicago with Hanni, using a talking computer to read and write email messages, those sorts of things. But what really feels good is when we’re held up to the exact same standards as our average peers

The only reason the refs allowed Matt Steven to be a “designated free throw shooter” was because he was blind. In the end, though, Matt had to produce. Just like his teammates.

Matt lets go. Off the backboard and through. Tie game. Crowd goes berserk.
Says Joe: “I think it helped that he’s blind. He couldn’t see the crowd, the scoreboard, his teammates’ faces.”

The crowd stills again. Dribble. Tap. Shoot. Bank. Swish! Up by one. The gym windows nearly break.

Chaos. Joy. Wonder.

The ESPN.com story goes on to describe how Matt’s life has changed after that big game. His teammates call him “Shooter” now. Girls greet him in the school hallways, and he’s thinking of asking one of them to prom. If she’s smart, she’ll say yes. It’ll be the best blind date of her life.

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Cheryl On February 22, 2010 at 1:56 pm

“Best blind date of her life” is right! AnnMarie may become Matt’s #1 fan too.

Jessica On February 22, 2010 at 8:00 pm

LOVE this Beth. You truly inspire me with your posts. I love stories like this because it shows that even for people like you and me who have disablities, we can still do things and have fun just like any normal person. please post more stories like this. I love reading them.

God Bless!!

Your Friend,

Jessica

bethfinke On February 22, 2010 at 8:57 pm

Jessica,
Thanks for the sweet note, it means a lot to me. For my blog readers who don’t know who Jessica is, she’s an energetic teenager I met at a writing seminar I gave at the Oak Park Public Library a few years ago. After the seminar, Jessica came up and introduced herself. “I have a poem published on the internet,” she said.
I was impressed, but I was busy signing books. I didn’t have time to ask what the poem was about. “Send me the link,” I told her.
And she did!
It turns out that Jess and her identical twin were born prematurely. When Jess was 11 years old, she participated in a bike therapy program called “Lose the Training Wheels,” and.. she learned to ride a bicycle!
Here’s Jessica’s poem.
I think it’s great:
Block quote start

Learning to Ride — A Poem About Bike Riding
By Jessica

Unconquerable, undefeated, and proud
The wheels turning,
People whizzing past my face,
I wanted to learn
I wanted to ride
But I just couldn’t

My pink bike with “balance wheels”
People laughing,
As I felt hurt down deep within

I tried and tried but fell
It was frustrating
But I got back up again and tried again and again

Finally, the pink bike — the “balance wheels” gone forever
I felt like a mighty king at the top of a mountain,
Who was now unconquerable, undefeated, and proud.
Block quote end

bethfinke On February 22, 2010 at 8:58 pm

Cheryl, I think AnnMarie may have to become Jessica’s #1 fan, too. That girl is going to be one tired cheerleader!

bethfinke On February 22, 2010 at 9:00 pm

Stu, you’re right, it’s pretty dang cool that the basketball stud decided to hand the ball over to Matt. But *my* favorite part of the story is where Matt *likes* it when the other team is rooting against him!

MaryEllen On February 22, 2010 at 9:13 pm

Wonderful story, Beth, on so many levels. Thanks for your wonderful posts. Keep ’em coming.

Lori Keller On February 23, 2010 at 12:21 pm

Hi Beth,

I’m a friend of Mike G’s. We’ve met a few times. The last time we had dinner in the back room of the Edgewater. It’s been a while since we’ve seen each other but I have enjoyed some of your blogs. When you post that you’ve updated your blog on Facebook, it’s a nice reminder to come over and read some more about your life and a sense of humor that we both share.

Lori

Beth Finke On February 23, 2010 at 1:03 pm

Lori, what a sweet note! Of course I remember you, thanks for taking the time to leave a comment. In fac,t it reminds me –I have to update Hanni’s status on facebook, tell her “friends” that a new post is up.
Will do that now —

Bob On February 24, 2010 at 9:44 am

You never said — how did your niece Anita do in her tourneyment?

bethfinke On February 24, 2010 at 10:20 am

From what I recall, she was the only girl from her team to make it to the last round, but then a senior from another school beat her out. Hanni and I did not go to any of the 3-point tournaments, but from what I hear some tears were shed. Not to worry — Anita was the only freshman in the tourney, which is a prize all in itself. Her mom says Anita learned a *lot* from the whole experience.
Now, on to soccer!

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