Following my leader

December 16, 2010 • Posted in Beth Finke, blindness, Seeing Eye dogs, Uncategorized by

I’ve always known my husband is a great writer. Now you all know that, too! A gargantuan thank you to Mike Knezovich for keeping the Safe & Sound blog going while I was away. He did such a tremendous job that now I have some big shoes to fill. Thank goodness for photos of cute dogs, if my writing is a little lacking no one will notice!

Harper and I, followed by weekend visitors, on walk at The Seeing Eye.

Harper and I, followed by weekend visitors, on a leisurely walk at The Seeing Eye.

My 18 days training with Harper at the Seeing Eye were go, go, go. The highlights:

  • Hearing his name for the first time. We weren’t told our dogs names until we were introduced. It was love at first sound. I love his name.
  • Taking off on our first walk down a sidewalk together. My smile was so broad, and the temperatures so cold, I thought my face might crack. Moments later, walking through space so quickly and efficiently, I was warm. Inside and out.
  • Manhattan. New York City is so stimulating, all the people rushing about, a wonderful energy in the air. Following Harper as he threaded his way through the sea of legs was a joy ride.

Days start early at the Seeing Eye. Every morning at 5:30 a.m. an instructor would play a song over the intercom, then make an announcement like this:

Good morning, everybody. Time to get up. Its 27 degrees outside, so bundle up. We’ll be coming around with bowls of food for your dog. Feed them, give them two cups of water and then head outside for park time. 

In my twenties I might have rebelled against being told what to do every day, how to dress, what to do when and where. Decades later, I found it surprisingly seductive. Decisions were made for me. I was told when to have Harper guide me to the dining hall for meals, when to meet in the lobby for a ride to downtown Morristown, where to go on routes, how to hold the harness, what to say to my new dog. I didn’t have to think. And there was no time to keep up with the news.

Bliss.

Last Monday night I confessed to one of my captors, I mean, trainers, that I was suffering from Stockholm Syndrome. I didn’t want to leave.

The very next day, 24 hours before Harper would be leading me to my seat on an airplane bound for Chicago, Harper and I were asked to do two surprise solo routes. Instructors took us to downtown Morristown, told me how many blocks they wanted me to go forward, then take a left, cross a street, go three blocks, take a right, cross a street. The instructor would stay silent, behind us. Harper followed my every command. We were a team. I was ready. I wanted to come home.

And now, here we are. I don’t think Harper has ever seen snow before! In addition to judging traffic at each intersection, he has to negotiate us safely around the pile of snow left by plows at each curb. At the first snowbank, I feel the harness dart just a little bit left and right in my hand. Harper is moving his head back and forth, figuring out the best option. Go left of the snow, or right? Then an aggressive pull. He found his opening. I follow.

It is absolutely thrilling to walk with Harper, and I catch myself laughing out loud during our trips. His exuberance is contagious. It’s not all fun and games, though. This is Chicago, after all.

Bounding down the sidewalk on our very first walk around the block, Harper stops suddenly. I do the same. A milli-second later I hear the “beep, beep, beep” of a truck backing into an alley. Harper saw it coming before I heard what was happening. “Good boy, Harper! Good boy!”

Seeing Eye trainers have to teach dogs how to judge when a car changes from a car that can be trusted to a car that cannot be trusted. When Harper is guiding me along a city sidewalk, he has to trust the traffic traveling on the streets around us. If he didn’t trust those cars, he’d be afraid of them And wouldn’t walk along the sidewalk.

The Seeing Eye asks dogs not to trust any vehicle moving towards them that is less than 20 feet away. They can’t ask dogs to be wary of anything farther  away than 20 feet, because there are a lot of vehicles farther than 20 feet away that the dogs have to trust. A car pulling into a parking lot half a block ahead, for example. Harper has to trust that car. Otherwise we’d be stopping all the time!

Twenty feet is not very far. A car traveling 30 mph covers 20 feet in one-half of one second. In one-half a second, a dog that is paying attention (Harper), and a human who is paying attention (me), can avoid getting hit by a truck backing into an alley.

Harper brings me to the next corner, “Harper, right!” I command. We spin right. “Good boy, Harper,” I say. “We’re almost home!” We’re Clipping along at a good trot when Harper suddenly skids to a stop. Again. I stop, too, following his lead. Again. This time, it’s a car bolting out of a parking garage. “Attaboy, Harper! Good boy, Harper! Good boy!”

Seeing Eye dogs are taught traffic work right from the beginning of their training process. At first they’re taught to avoid cars just like they’re taught to avoid other obstacles – garbage cans, trees, light poles, stuff like that. Then staff drivers come after the dog. They teach the dogs to run away from a car or back away from a car. And they teach the dogs to stop at a variety of distances from a moving car. After enough practice, the dog’s fear and concern about moving vehicles turns into confidence and awareness.

And thanks to Harper, and all the many, many, many people who have put their hearts and minds together to train Seeing eye dogs like him for the past 80+ years, any fears or concerns I had about facing traffic with a new dog are also turning into awareness. And confidence. Attaboy, Harper.

Don Horvath On December 16, 2010 at 7:50 pm

Beth: What a great holiday story. I have been feeling sorry for myself because of a couple of hard deals I am working on right now. Reading your blog cheered me up and reoriented me. It is great to hear that you are back in Chicago with Mike. He did a great job on the blog.

Merry Christmas and Happy New Year!

Don

bethfinke On December 17, 2010 at 9:13 am

Don,
Thanks so much for the good wishes, and I want to thank you again for your note a while back about transitioning from your dog Oscar to your dog Wilson. You helped me realize that I’d be able to love and appreciate this new dog as much as I do Hanni. You were so right.
Merry Christmas to you, too, Don. And to Juli and Wilson, too.
PS: Two of the dogs in our class were brother and sister: Wonder and Wink. Wilson could have been right there with them. Oh, except Wonder and Wink are German Shepherds…

Leslie On December 16, 2010 at 8:14 pm

Hi Beth. Congrats on making it home with Harper. I love the description of your walk together and highlights at TSE. It sounds like the two of you are an awesome team already! Keep up the good work!

MaryEllen Schneider On December 16, 2010 at 8:44 pm

Welcome home, Beth! It’s fascinating getting an inside view of working with a new dog. Thanks for taking us on your journey.

bethfinke On December 17, 2010 at 9:20 am

You are so welcome, and hey, the jjourney is really just beginning! Looking forward to having Harper volunteer for Sit, Stay, Read this Spring, he’ll be debuting at Mannierre School in April.
Blog readers who don’t know what Sit Stay Read is should check it out, Mary Ellen is a founder. My Seeing Eye dog and I are among hundreds of volunteers who visit Chicago Public Schools. We use our book, and other books about dogs, to encourage the kids to love reading:
http://www.sitstayread.org

Alexis On December 16, 2010 at 9:34 pm

Congratulations on your match with Harper! He sounds like a wonderful dog.

Teej On December 16, 2010 at 9:50 pm

Fantastic. Welcome home to both of you!

bethfinke On December 17, 2010 at 9:22 am

Thanks, and did you recognize that pair trailing us in the photo…?

Cheryl On December 16, 2010 at 10:12 pm

Attaboy is right!

nancyb On December 16, 2010 at 10:40 pm

I’m so glad you are home! Yeah Harper, what a gas it is to hear about him.

Lori On December 17, 2010 at 12:08 am

Like others Beth, I am welcoming you home.

I am loving this story and can’t wait for the next installment.

bethfinke On December 17, 2010 at 9:24 am

Ha! I’m looking forward to the next installment myself. With Chicago traffic and Harper’s wonderful personality and work ethic, one never knows what might happen next. Thanks for staying tuned.

Carlos On December 17, 2010 at 7:49 am

Thumbs up Harper! What an exciting winter for all of you…

bethfinke On December 17, 2010 at 9:25 am

Exciting, yes. In more ways than one!

bev On December 17, 2010 at 9:16 am

Welcome home!

bethfinke On December 17, 2010 at 10:14 am

You know, I hadn’t thought about it, but maybe the theme of this post was…making decisions. Like I said, I know that in my twenties I would have *hated* having others make decisions for me, but now, after decades of decision-making (and not always making the best ones!) I so enjoyed having the Seeing Eye staff make decisions for me while we were “in house.” I’m thinking now that part of the reason they do that is to clear our heads. You know, so we can make the split-second decisions we need to make on the road.
And you’re right. Harper *is* the real deal.

Ira Cohen On December 17, 2010 at 10:36 am

Welcome home Beth. You better start working on getting Harper accustomed to hearing fireworks and smelling hot dogs. I think we’ll be hearing a lot of explosions at Comiskey this year.

pnelson@spherion-staffing.com On December 17, 2010 at 1:49 pm

Beth, I again am thankful for the oportunity to have met you, I am learning so much from you about you, seeing eye dogs and what goes on in you life.

Looking forward to the next installment!

Penn

Michael On December 17, 2010 at 2:20 pm

Beth,

I enjoyed Mike keeping us up to date, but has anyone pointed out the tiny error in his last sentence? An example of a perfect mistake.

Any chance Harper is a Cub fan? Did you ask? Do they screen for that when they make their matches?

Mike On December 17, 2010 at 9:40 pm

Yep, Beth’s sister Cheryl noticed the error. I expect it’ll go on for awhile. Really hard to break old habits.

And no, Harper is not a Cub fan. He loves Ozzie. And Konerko. And A.J. And Alexei. And Buehrle. And Rios. And Beckham. And Morel. And Pierre. And Quentin. And Dunn. And Crain. And Edwin Jackson. And Sale. And Thornton. And Danks. And Santos. And Gavin Floyd. And so on. Plus Wrigley, for all its old-time charm, is a horribly inaccessible place. So any guide dog or wheelchair goer likes the Cell over Weegham park. Sorry, I’m a traditionalist. So I have to refer to Cubs park by its original name–before the Wrigley chewing gum empire takeover.

Jeff flodin On December 17, 2010 at 5:21 pm

Great name, Harper. Sounds like a Paul Newman movie character. It’s wonderful to hear your excitement about his abilities and the exhiliration of being again with a trusted friend.

Maria On December 17, 2010 at 6:19 pm

I’m sure you are very happy to be home. It sounds like Harper is doing great! What a guy. Your latest blog was great….and yes, Mike was doing a great
job as well. It’s a tough call….who’s better….I’ll play Switzerland and say you’re both equal. LOL

Lolly On December 18, 2010 at 8:48 am

It sounds like you’re falling in love all over again. Isn’t it amazing how there is room in our hearts, even when we think there is no more?

Harper is a great name! I always think of male labbies as having names like that or Tucker, Barney, Max etc.

It’s so wonderful, the different stages we go through with our dogs. In the beginning there is the exhilleration of learning about each other, and building the new relationship trip by trip.

At the end there is the old friend who knows your every move. It is all so lovely!

But, lest we leave readers with the idea it’s all harts and roses, there are days in the beginning, when you just don’t click. The communication is off, and you both need a time out. The good thing is dogs are one of nature’s most resilient creatures, and they know how to enjoy their present moment – a lesson for us all.

Have fun with your new boy!

bethfinke On December 18, 2010 at 10:36 am

Oh, Lolly, you are so wise! Guess that comes with experience, huh? I know Brook is your *fifth* Seeing Eye dog, and I so appreciate your willingness to share all you’ve learned from each partnership. For blog readers who want to know more about how their guide dogs think, learn and behave I highly recommend Lolly’s web site “Guide Brook Productions”:
http://www.guidebrookproductions.com/

Benita On December 18, 2010 at 7:03 pm

You had this tough old NY broad weeping with joy at your and Harper’s success.
Continued success and much love to you all—Mike included.

marilee On December 18, 2010 at 9:54 pm

Glad to know you are home safe and sound.

becky On December 19, 2010 at 12:03 am

Congratulations! I am so happy for you. It is amazing how big our heart can be and it makes room for the next guide. It was so fun to read Mike’s perspective while you were away also. Steve, my husband, read some too and could really relate. Wishing you well as you make the transition of getting back into your routine.

Marcia On December 19, 2010 at 11:01 am

Glad to know you’re both home safely. I loved reading your essay on getting to know Harper. Was this Harper’s first flight?

Wishing you, Mike, Gus, Haper and all you family a very Merry Christmas and a Joyous New Year.

Love, Marcia

Beth On December 21, 2010 at 11:22 am

Yes, his first ever plane ride, although the Seeing Eye has a set of seats from an airplane down in the basement of the school, they use them to practice with the dogs. Harper and I were lucky enough to be on a farily empty flight, got three seats all to ourselves.
Harper weighs the same as Hanni but he is significantly taller than she is, harder to squeeze him in under the seat in front of us. That’s how Seeing Eye dogs ride, we put their butts under the seat in front of us and let them rest their heads between our feet. So the extra leg room was appreciated!

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