Last month an email popped up in my in box from the Oprah Winfrey Network (OWN) asking me if anything new has happened in my life since 2001, when I appeared on Oprah’s After the Show segment and spoke about my job modeling nude for art students.
After dozens of email messages and some phone calls and Mike’s photo sharing and my final Skype call with them, well, today I’m on Oprah again! You can link to the Oprah Winfrey Network to watch my original 2001 appearance about nude modeling, hear clips from my Skype interview, and see which of the many, many photos Mike sent that OWN decided to use along with my story. For those of you who want the Cliff Notes version, here’s how they summarize it there:
In 2001, Beth Finke sat in an “Oprah Show” audience and listened to a discussion about a topic particularly meaningful to many men and women: aging gracefully. As researchers and authors on the show discussed everything from wrinkles to workouts, Finke listened intently, but couldn’t quite relate to people’s common concerns. When the taping ended, Finke stood up to explain why.”I’m blind. I lost my sight in my 20s,” Finke said after the show, with cameras still rolling. “I have two things to say about that. One thing is, quit looking in the mirror! … Because as far as I’m concerned, I’m still 26.”
The second piece of advice she shared had to do with living without self-imposed limits. Though losing her sight freed Finke from the pressures of outward appearances, she told Oprah that blindness also cost her quite a bit in the process — she lost her job, the ability to exercise as often and “a lot” of self-esteem. Eventually, though, Finke chose to take back control of her life.
“I have been lifting weights for the last three or four years at home, and I just got a new job a couple of years ago doing, guess what?” Finke said. “I live in a university town and I’m a nude model for the art and design department!”
Oprah almost couldn’t believe Finke’s story, but it was indeed true. “I just modeled yesterday,” Finke said. “The boys were very quiet. The art professor said… ‘I don’t think they’ve ever seen a naked woman in the daylight.'”
Fourteen years after sharing her story, Finke is just as candid. She no longer models nude, but still looks for way that others can learn from her own experience….
…it’s me again. If you want to read the rest of the story, visit the OWN site. You can see and hear it all on video via a aol, and it’s also on Huffington Post.
Beth
You are too amazing!!! I Love this. ?
Have a wonderful day! Darlene
Sent from my iPhone
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Awww, shucks. THANKS, Darlene!
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Dearest Beth,
I just want you to know that knowing you has changed how I look at life! I love u.
Barbara
…and knowing you has changed how musch I value a good hug — LOTS!
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Once again, you have succinctly put life into perspective. Bravo to you and to Oprah for realizing she had a gem on her show years ago.
I wonder if Oprah even remembers me? Maybe she does now…!
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Wow! no idea you were on Oprah! Someday I will be there too.
We’ll stay tuned….
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yep!
I love this! It’s interesting that the Oprah people are revisiting the people on the show, too. Love the courage and inspiring words, Beth!
The courage to model nude in front of college art students, or the courage to stand up in the Oprah audience and talk about it? Either way, Ill take the compliment –thanks, LaRa.
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Hi Beth! Katie Eisenhower (formerly McManners) from Little Rock here. I met you through the Arkansas Literary Festival. This post is timely as I have been struggling with body image issues lately. I’m practicing positive self-talk. 🙂
Katie, of course I remember you. I *loved* our trip to Little Rock, and a lot of that had to do with you and your hospitality. You seemed so youthful, I can’t believe you are having issues with aging now. Hmm. Maybe you are about the age I was in that Oprah video? Quit looking in the mirror!
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OMG…Who woulda thought!! Love it!!
Sue Doyle
You continue to amaze me. Anyone reading your book would know this story in more detail. As an artist I’ve spent numerous hours with nude models — male and female — and have always admired their confidence and tenacity when it comes to inventing inspirational poses, returning to them after a break and, most of all, being able to hold them for long periods of time. There might be a parable in there, because you’ve applied those same skills to how one might live their life. I often narrow things down to trilogies, which in this case are: inspiration, repetition and consistency. Those are real strengths.
Oh Beth, as always, you continue to surprise and inspire all with whom you make contact. As one who has only one (hidden-in-a-closet) full length mirror in my home, your message inspires me to believe that this is the right way to live, indeed! Your fan, as ever…..
From one fan to another –I will forever be your fan for that magnificent story you wrote about my visit to Long Island with my Seeing Eye dog, Penny. And now, if I ever decide to write a self-help book for people who are over concerned about their appearance as they age, I’ll title it “Stop Looking in the Mirror.”
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Wonderful to revisit this story. Thanks for bringing us up to date.
…and wonderful to hear from someone who recognizes this is an *old* story
As Mike says, Oprah knows how to milk things….!
I can hear Flo giggling!
She had a good giggle, didn’t she?
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This was one of my favorite outings with Beth. Overnight downtown, VIP treatment at “Oprah”, “high-fiving” Oprah as she walked to her chair on set. The looks and laughter of both Mim and Oprah after Beth told her story of modeling was priceless. As we left the show, so many people acknowledged Beth and said, “way to go”….”loved your story”. We floated out of there and now reliving it brings a smile to my face .
What a coincidence: one of my favorite and memorable moments with you too, sister.
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Although we were warned in class,I can’t help, you’re a special creation! I am tickled whenever you respond to my “hello Beth” at the start of the class.
…and I’m tickled any time you’re there in class to say hello, Zennie!
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I’d like to see the clip on Oprah but can’t find it. Can you give me the direct link?
-Bob
Wow, had no idea the link on this post wasn’t working, sorry about that, Bob. .
Below find a link that aol sent out, I just checked it and it seems to work fine:
http://features.aol.com/video/how-one-woman-embarked-new-path-afterlosing-her-sight
I’ll fix it on the post now, too, thanks for alerting me.
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