Whitney and I took a commuter train to Deerfield, Illinois yesterday to talk with third graders at Wilmot Elementary about what it’s like to be blind and get around with a Seeing Eye dog.
I started our presentation to the eight- and nine-year-olds explaining three rules to keep in mind if they happen to see a guide dog with a harness on: don’t pet the dog, don’t feed the dog, and don’t call out the dog’s name. “Those things can distract a Seeing Eye dog,” I told them. “It’d be like if someone nudged you or kept calling your name wile you were working on your spelling words at school. You wouldn’t be able to concentrate on your work.”
I suggested we come up with a fake name for Whitney. “We’re going to be here at your school for a while today, and you might want to say hello if you see us in the hallway,” I said, explaining that if they use my Seeing Eye dog’s fake name to say hello, Whitney wouldn’t look their way and get distracted from her work — she wouldn’t realize they were talking to her.
I asked the kids what their principal’s name was. “Mrs. Brett!” they called out. “Does anyone know Mrs. Brett’s first name?” I asked. After a moment of silence, one sweet little voice rang out. “I do! It’s Eileen.” And so, it was agreed. The kids would call Whitney by her code name: Eileen.
Most of the questions during the Q&A part of the session had more to do with blindness than dogs:
- Your dog is really cute. Do you know what she looks like?
- How do you drive, I mean, like, can you?
- How do you know what to wear?
- Did you ever bring your dog to the vet and then he had to stay in the hospital?
- How do you get in and out of bed?
- Do you ever even get into a car?
- Do you know what made you blind?
- Isn’t it hard to get around when you can’t see?
- Does it ever make you feel sorry being blind?
I tell kids at school visits they can ask me anything. I promise to give an honest answer, so when that last question was asked I had to say yes, sometimes I do feel sorry being blind. “Not right now, though,” I was able to answer sincerely. “Just beeing here with you guys, hearing your smart questions? That makes me feel happy!”
Thanks for making me cry. It was more enjoyable than the Cubs losing to the Dodgers, and that’s saying a lot.
Sweet story. I love reading about your school visits and the kids’ unfiltered questions . Thank you.
My pleasure.
Another wonderful visit with the eight and nine-year old crowd. I know you and Whitney made them just as happy as they made you.
It was pretty joyful. I think the teachers were happy to get a little break from the routine as well.
Great answer!! I am sure they all felt happy and proud too!
You know, I think they did.
My friend Michelle’s golden retriever was named Tango, but his code name was Ginger. He didn’t visit schools, but was a hit wherever we went. I have a question for you (smile). Do you ever get jealous of all the attention your dog gets when the two of you are out together? It’s rhetorical only (smile).
Ah, no. I don’t get jealous of all the attention she gets –deflects the attention off of me!
Another awesome recap of a school visit.
Love this. You and Whitney are so busy!
We sure have been lately. And more to come…stay tuned.
How Sweet! Go Astro’s! That first comment was awesome…about even more enjoyable than watching the Cubs lose That was certainly another sweet moment!!
Ha! I think you and Ira (see comment abovie) oughta be pen pals!
Hi Beth,
I know why you love talking to 5th graders and younger is that they are so honest, sincere and
compassionate. That last question shows how that little person tried to feel what he/she would
feel if they couldn’t see. You’re doing such a great job helping children to be sensitive to those
who have some type of disability. Go Beth Go!!
Kathy
Aw, thanks. But honestly, they help me as much as I halp them.
Hi Beth. I really enjoy hearing about your visits with kids. Thanks.
What a coincidence. I really enjoy sharing stories about these school visits, too — hope for the future.
These kids get right to the core of things. We should learn from them to be more authentic!
You are so right. I learn more from them than they do from me.
I love the curiosity in the questions from those 8 and 9 year olds!
Me, too. Their questions give me ideas of topics to cover in these blog posts!
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