This is one thing that always makes me feel happy

October 25, 2017 • Posted in blindness, careers/jobs for people who are blind, guide dogs, questions kids ask, Seeing Eye dogs, travel, visiting schools by

Whitney and I took a commuter train to Deerfield, Illinois yesterday to talk with third graders at Wilmot Elementary about what it’s like to be blind and get around with a Seeing Eye dog.

Whit's always up for a class visit.

Whit’s always up for a class visit.

I started our presentation to the eight- and nine-year-olds explaining three rules to keep in mind if they happen to see a guide dog with a harness on: don’t pet the dog, don’t feed the dog, and don’t call out the dog’s name. “Those things can distract a Seeing Eye dog,” I told them. “It’d be like if someone nudged you or kept calling your name wile you were working on your spelling words at school. You wouldn’t be able to concentrate on your work.”

I suggested we come up with a fake name for Whitney. “We’re going to be here at your school for a while today, and you might want to say hello if you see us in the hallway,” I said, explaining that if they use my Seeing Eye dog’s fake name to say hello, Whitney wouldn’t look their way and get distracted from her work — she wouldn’t realize they were talking to her.

I asked the kids what their principal’s name was. “Mrs. Brett!” they called out. “Does anyone know Mrs. Brett’s first name?” I asked. After a moment of silence, one sweet little voice rang out. “I do! It’s Eileen.” And so, it was agreed. The kids would call Whitney by her code name: Eileen.

Most of the questions during the Q&A part of the session had more to do with blindness than dogs:

  • Your dog is really cute. Do you know what she looks like?
  • How do you drive, I mean, like, can you?
  • How do you know what to wear?
  • Did you ever bring your dog to the vet and then he had to stay in the hospital?
  • How do you get in and out of bed?
  • Do you ever even get into a car?
  • Do you know what made you blind?
  • Isn’t it hard to get around when you can’t see?
  • Does it ever make you feel sorry being blind?

I tell kids at school visits they can ask me anything. I promise to give an honest answer, so when that last question was asked I had to say yes, sometimes I do feel sorry being blind. “Not right now, though,” I was able to answer sincerely. “Just beeing here with you guys, hearing your smart questions? That makes me feel happy!”

Ira On October 25, 2017 at 12:32 pm

Thanks for making me cry. It was more enjoyable than the Cubs losing to the Dodgers, and that’s saying a lot.

Bruce Creager On October 25, 2017 at 12:57 pm

Sweet story. I love reading about your school visits and the kids’ unfiltered questions . Thank you.

Beth On October 26, 2017 at 9:40 am

My pleasure.

Cheryl On October 25, 2017 at 12:58 pm

Another wonderful visit with the eight and nine-year old crowd. I know you and Whitney made them just as happy as they made you.

Beth On October 26, 2017 at 9:39 am

It was pretty joyful. I think the teachers were happy to get a little break from the routine as well.

Marilee On October 25, 2017 at 1:11 pm

Great answer!! I am sure they all felt happy and proud too!

Beth On October 26, 2017 at 9:37 am

You know, I think they did.

Hank On October 25, 2017 at 1:46 pm

My friend Michelle’s golden retriever was named Tango, but his code name was Ginger. He didn’t visit schools, but was a hit wherever we went. I have a question for you (smile). Do you ever get jealous of all the attention your dog gets when the two of you are out together? It’s rhetorical only (smile).

Beth On October 26, 2017 at 9:36 am

Ah, no. I don’t get jealous of all the attention she gets –deflects the attention off of me!

Pat Miller On October 25, 2017 at 3:10 pm

Another awesome recap of a school visit.

Regan Burke On October 25, 2017 at 4:58 pm

Love this. You and Whitney are so busy!

Beth On October 26, 2017 at 9:34 am

We sure have been lately. And more to come…stay tuned.

Sue Doyle On October 25, 2017 at 6:43 pm

How Sweet! Go Astro’s! That first comment was awesome…about even more enjoyable than watching the Cubs lose That was certainly another sweet moment!!

Beth On October 26, 2017 at 9:33 am

Ha! I think you and Ira (see comment abovie) oughta be pen pals!

Kathy Moyer On October 25, 2017 at 11:25 pm

Hi Beth,
I know why you love talking to 5th graders and younger is that they are so honest, sincere and
compassionate. That last question shows how that little person tried to feel what he/she would
feel if they couldn’t see. You’re doing such a great job helping children to be sensitive to those
who have some type of disability. Go Beth Go!!
Kathy

Beth On October 26, 2017 at 9:29 am

Aw, thanks. But honestly, they help me as much as I halp them.

Sharon On October 26, 2017 at 6:50 am

Hi Beth. I really enjoy hearing about your visits with kids. Thanks.

Beth On October 26, 2017 at 9:43 am

What a coincidence. I really enjoy sharing stories about these school visits, too — hope for the future.

Annelore On October 27, 2017 at 6:11 pm

These kids get right to the core of things. We should learn from them to be more authentic!

Beth On October 27, 2017 at 8:03 pm

You are so right. I learn more from them than they do from me.

Deborah Darsie On November 26, 2017 at 11:21 pm

I love the curiosity in the questions from those 8 and 9 year olds!

Beth On November 29, 2017 at 6:46 am

Me, too. Their questions give me ideas of topics to cover in these blog posts!

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