The Chicago Tribune interviewed three Chicago-area memoir-writing teachers for an article they published last week called A story to tell: Memoir writing unlocks family life and times. I haven’t yet met the other two writers, but when reading the article it came as no surprise to me to learn we all have one thing in common: We all love our jobs.
Virginia Gibbons, a professor at Oakton Community College who teaches classes at Chicago’s Irish American Heritage Center, points out in the article that “memoirs can be a way to understand what happened.” Cathaleen Roach, senior outreach coordinator at suburban River Forest, leads writing classes to community groups there and told the Tribune how much joy she sees during classes. “I don’t want people to be afraid of looking back.” My quote in the article advocates for taking a class rather than writing in isolation at home:
Finke’s classes run for six to eight weeks and take a break before another session begins. “A lot of the writers don’t like the break. They get so used to being with each other week after week and sharing their stories,” she says. “It’s one place you can go and people are going to listen to you.”
The best quotes came from the experts: people who take our memoir-writing classes. Bindy Bitterman, Wanda Bridgeforth, and Annelore Chapin — three writers in memoir classes I lead here in Chicago — are quoted.
Bindy takes the class I lead at a senior living center called The Admiral, and the Tribune mentions a 500-word piece she wrote for class about meeting Sen. John F. Kennedy at Oak Street Beach in 1956 (JFK was here to attend the 1956 Democratic Convention). Bindy credits memoir-writing classes for giving her the discipline to write as she’s always wanted to do. “I just enjoy it more than anything I’ve done these last years,” she says.
From there the article quotes Wanda, a writer you Safe & Sound blog readers know very well. She told the reporter that her 12 years attending memoir-writing classes has been a way to reconnect with her relatives and stay engaged in life. “It’s just helped so much,” she says. “It took the cobwebs off the brain.”
The story ends beautifully with a quote from Annelore Chapin, a writer in Wanda’s class. Annelore was a toddler when World War II was ending, and after a few weeks in class she worried her innocent stories of growing up in Germany might make Jewish women in our writing class uncomfortable. She talked to the women privately and offered to leave. Instead, the writers gave her hugs. “All of us learn about tolerance and accepting each other,” she says. “To me that’s a wonderful benefit.”
I’m so glad you and the memoir writing process got the attention it deserved. More writers will come forward and make their lives better.
Oh, Mark thank you. Really appreciated how upbeat and encouraging the article was.Hope you are right and it encourages more people to give memoir-writing –and memoir classes –a try.
Memoir classes sound similar to other creative outlets that provide a sense of community and acceptance. Although I’ve never taken a memoir class, I get the same feelings from my art class. These creative and thoughtful outlets pay off way better than therapy. Thanks for what you and the other memoir teachers do.
Agree! Whether it’s improv, ceramics, choir,painting, woodworking, , it seems classes like these bring people from all walks of life together.
How lucky we are to be part of creative communities of diverse people. Thanks for spreading the word.
You have given so many people freedom to tell their stories they’d never have gotten otherwise. A new member of our class told me in the Starbucks line, “What a gift she is. I feel so special to have found her.” Ditto.
What a coincidence. That’s what I tell people when I’m describing my friendship with you, Regan.
Hi.Beth-
In the land of small worlds, I know C. Roach. My sister and her were in the same law school class and have remained good friends. She’s a real gem! So fun your paths have crossed.
Great to hear from you, Carol. And what fun you know Cathaleen Roach. I have never met her, haven’t met the woman who teaches at the Irish American Center, either, but intend on getting in touch with them both sometime soon to trade shop secrets.
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