Does the picture on the cover look like me? Hard to know

March 29, 2019 • Posted in blindness, book tour, Braille, guide dogs, questions kids ask, Seeing Eye dogs, travel, visiting schools, Writing for Children by

A week ago today my sisters accompanied me to Peach Plains Elementary School in Grand Haven, Michigan—my Seeing Eye dog Whitney and I were giving a presentation to Brenda Wittkopp’s fourth-grade class there.

Photo of Beth and her great nephew Bryce and Whitney.

That’s Bryce and me in front of his class.

Since Hanni and Beth: Safe & Sound is a picture book, some schools figure the older kids won’t be interested in what we can show them. But guess what? Older kids are as curious about what it’s like to be blind as the younger ones are. That’s especially true when the blind lady doing the presentation is related to someone in their class: my sister Bev’s grandson Bryce is a fourth grader at Peach Plains, and he joined Whitney and me up front to help during the Q&A portion of our presentation (without being able to see, I can’t tell which kids have their hands up). Watching our great-nephew in action made Sister’s Weekend last week even more special. Some of the questions:

  • Did you have Whitney when she was a little puppy?
  • What day is her birthday?
  • Did Hanni die of age?
  • I was wondering when you started writing – was it before you were blind, or after?
  • How did you meet your illustrator?
  • Do you remember colors?
  • Why do Seeing Eye dogs wear harnesses instead of just using the leash?
  • How long do they have to train the dogs?
  • What is your favorite color?
  • What type of dog food does she eat, and who helps you find it?
  • Do you think your picture on the cover looks like you?
  • I think this might be a sort of dumb question, but is there Braille for colors?
  • How do you go grocery shopping?
  • How do you make your bread?
  • What type of dog was Hanni?
  • When you write, is there a certain thing that you do?
  • On your computer, is there Braille on the keyboard?
  • How old is your dog now?
  • Do you know how old she is in human years?

“Older than me,” was my answer to that last one, and then two boys came up front after the presentation, each with a question I’d never been asked by a schoolkid before. “What’s your favorite NFL team?” was one of them. My sisters had to explain later that the kids were heading out for recess, and that boy had a Detroit Lions football in his hands. The question from the other boy left me leaving the presentation with a smile: “Can you tell me your bread recipe?” I do know it by heart, I told him, but it would take too long to recite. “How about I send it to Ms. Wittkopp for you?” Which is what I’m going to do right now, after I hit the “publish” button on this blog post.

Hank On March 29, 2019 at 6:52 am

Thank you, Beth. In these turbulent times, your essays about your school trips, which remind us of the beauty in the innocence of youth, are always a welcome breath of fresh air.

Beth On March 29, 2019 at 9:29 am

You are so right, Hank. I think that’s why I like doing them so much, too.

Marilee On March 29, 2019 at 8:43 am

4th grade questions show more connections to life and other literature. And the questions you share always make me go “hmm” – we are doing ok.

Beth On March 29, 2019 at 9:35 am

I appreciated you pointing out last week how important the question about the bread was – I hadn’t mentioned breadbaking in my talk, so his question demonstrated that he paid attention when he’d read the book. You called it something fancy –“literature comprehension” or something? Anyway, always a treat to have a teacher like you along for the ride. PS: Thank you for writing down all the questions as they were asked, very helpful when putting this post together!

REgan On March 29, 2019 at 8:58 am

That was fun to read. As always, those questions! I hope you had a rest on Sisters weekend.

Beth On March 29, 2019 at 9:40 am

Well, not really. Thank goodness all our memoir-writing classes are on break right now — I needed a couple days rest afterwards to catch up!

Sheila A. Donovan On March 29, 2019 at 10:08 am

I love kid’s curiosity!

Janet Smith On March 29, 2019 at 10:50 am

And share with us too! We love your bread…

Bev On March 29, 2019 at 11:16 am

It’s always so much fun to witness your visits to the classroom. I’m glad we were able to fit it into our busy schedule.

Mel Theobald On March 29, 2019 at 3:14 pm

Another classic encounter with kids. Always one of my favorite Bethological treats. (OK, I just made that word up!) Your lead question made me wonder if blind people are vain when it comes to their looks? I can tell you now, you are beautiful on the cover and in person. My answer to the student’s question is yes. Is Bryce still doing his blog?

Bev On March 29, 2019 at 3:32 pm

Yes, Mel. Bryce’s two year blogging anniversary is April 8th. He has a big celebration in store. Check it out. You don’t want to miss it!

Mel Theobald On March 29, 2019 at 4:03 pm

Thanks Bev. I’ll take a look.

Nancy Bollero On March 30, 2019 at 10:00 am

Great post and fantastic picture. I think that Bryce is going places!

Beth On March 31, 2019 at 11:14 am

As a matter of fact…he is! Later in April my sister Bev is bringing Bryce to Japan to meet his cousin:Bryce’s Uncle Brian teaches English in Japan, and my great -niece Sumire (pronounced Sue-midday) was born there a year ago. Imagine the vlogs Bryce will come out with after that trip –can’t wait.

A little older • Beth Finke On April 3, 2019 at 7:19 am

[…] piped up. “It was good!” Don’t ask me why, but their compliments made me think of that question a fourth-grader had asked me the week before, during a school visit in Michigan. “That picture on the cover,” I asked the […]

Deborah Darsie On April 17, 2019 at 11:36 pm

Gosh, those questions are wonderful glimpses into the interests and curiosity of the students.
All this on top of the sisters weekend made for a full schedule!

Beth On April 20, 2019 at 10:03 am

It sure did. I feel like I’m still recovering…a month later!

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