I’ve had the dreaded virus, and though the jury’s out, it’s fairly likely I have some immunity for some time. That means it’s likely I’m a pretty safe bet to be around for at least awhile.
But.
I like wearing my mask.
I like signaling to people around me that I’m taking this seriously, and that I care enough about them to make this tiny little effort. It’s a show of solidarity. And I appreciate seeing others doing the same thing. Besides that, evidence shows if we wear masks, we can drastically reduce the spread of the disease.
I also completely understand that how one views this virus thing has everything to do with where they are sheltering in place. At the board of directors Zoom meeting of the organization I work for, one member told us that in Maine, where he lives, covid19 is just not much of an issue up there. (Though, it is an issue at the local nursing home, which is why even in such places, we should be careful.)
Our friends in Champaign-Urbana are having a substantially different experience than we are up here. It’s an issue there, to be sure. Students are taking classes online, dorms are empty. And residents are mostly taking it seriously, according to some good friends we’ve been in touch with since this started.
They don’t have the problem back in our old stomping ground that we do up here in Chicago. And they’d like to keep it that way. But our friends there tell us that people from surrounding towns come into Urbana and Champaign to shop and do other business, and apparently, just don’t bother with the masks.
Beyond that, a friend’s father-in-law had to go to an emergency room for a heart-related issue in Decatur, Illinois. He’s 89. People in the waiting room weren’t wearing masks. He asked the security guard about it. “I asked them to,” the guard replied.
The kicker is, at one point, he had to ask a nurse, a NURSE, to put on a mask.
Yeesh.
I simply don’t understand that. I understand concerns and reasonable arguments about when and where to suspend the lockdown orders. But I don’t understand laziness and selfishness. And I call bullshit on the freedom people. Freedom doesn’t mean an absence of social obligation and responsibility.
It’s crazy. I feel like I’m that kind of old guy Republican from my youth telling shaggy-haired callow young guys like me that freedom didn’t equate to sitting around and smoking dope and having sex all day. (Still an attractive thought, though,)
Only now I’m telling people that freedom doesn’t mean being able to carry rocket launchers around in public and ignoring the health and safety of fellow citizens.
Whatever happened to that kind of Republican?
Nice mask! What did Lincoln say: the freedom to swing your arms extends from the ends of your fingers to the tip of someone’s nose? I’m sure he said it better but I like the analogy.
Love that quote, thanks Al.
Somehow, here in Middle TN (around Nashville) masks have become political. As if COVID-18 discriminates between political parties. Republicans think the whole virus/close down the economy thing is a conspiracy by the Dems to crash the economy and win the Presidential election. I am in the high risk group and trying to stay home because so many people are going out sans masks. My husband is a physician and could be exposed to the virus any day at work. He is careful (showering and changing out of scrubs as soon as he arrives home) but this whole “We’re in this together” campaign is BS. Some people are more “in this” than others. He and I are immersed “in this” and we’re terrified of me getting the virus. It’s not that hard to put a mask on. It shows that you care about the welfare of your neighbors and our society. Stay safe Mike and keep Beth well!
Ha. There’s a meme going around that shows one person on a luxurious yacht and another in a leaky tub. AKA, we’re not in the same boat.
I totally agree with you Mike. Over the past weekend in Grant Park, I noticed many groups of 12 or more not socially distancing, but sitting right next to each other on blankets. I get the fact that we are cooped up in our condos and we need to get out… but I am concerned about these things. I am not sure why people don’t think it is important to socially distance. They may live in our buildings and then spread the virus. BTW- I am so happy to hear that you’re doing much better. Thanks for sharing your story.
Great to hear from you, Darlene. I forgot you have that great view–but sorry to hear about the gatherings. I think we’re going to be dealing with this for awhile. Even after restrictions are loosened a bit, the distancing thing will be good practice for the indefinite future.
I hear you brother! I was raised a Republican by my father. As a young professional in the accounting field I really respected fiscal conservatism. Dial forward 40 years and I don’t even recognize the Republican party, let alone side with most of what they represent today.
It’s crazy, ain’t it Dean?
Thanks for this encouraging reminder, Mike. The sooner we get this thing under control, the sooner we’ll all be free to resume our normal lives. Support your local small business. Mask up and social distance.
We have better virus-detectors than god-detectors, so I know which one I’ll believe exists. I’d be willing (and amused) to listen to a Republican make the opposite argument.
Mike
Glad you are recovered! Love to you and Beth!
Wear a mask at every turn outside our house- as I take daily walks, I’m stunned on how many do not – when did we lose the real care for each other?
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