I am pleased to feature 99-year-old Wanda Bridgeforth as our Saturdays with Seniors guest blogger today. If you’ve followed our blog for a while, you know Wanda – she’d been attending the memoir writing class I led in downtown Chicago for nearly two decades before coronavirus hit last year.
What you might not know about Wanda is that she is an immigrant: she was born in Canada. Hamilton, Ontario to be exact. The woman Wanda has always affectionately called Mama is the woman who adopted Wanda as an infant and loved and raised her. Mama had to work “in family” during the Great Depression, and the “Ma Hale” mentioned in this essay was one of many helpful women in Chicago’s Black Metropolis who pitched in to take care of young Wanda while Mama lived with the families she cooked and cleaned for.
Mama’s resilience and determination has influenced Wanda’s own life ever since. Sheltering-in-place in her apartment now, Wanda fills her days with episodes of Jeopardy!, naps, meals, and visits from Wanda Jr. The rest of the time you’ll find her looking out the window, amazed at the beauty of Lake Michigan and the sky above. “And sometimes I just close my eyes and reminisce,” she says. “It makes me happy.”
By Wanda Bridgeforth
A young friend asked me how I was surviving the quarantine. “Just like I lived through other crises,” I told her.
It is hard to believe that the first house we lived in when we came to Chicago was still lit by gas lamps on the walls, fireplaces in every room and a wood-burning stove in the kitchen. The kitchen was so large -Ma Hale’s work space was an old dining table set in the center of the room. Chairs lined two walls, and we children had our snacks, played games, and did our homework on one side and the end of it. On Friday and Saturday evenings the family gathered around the table for games and chit-chat.
This past year I received a container of herbal vegetable soup in the mail for my birthday. The first spoonful took me back to pre-depression days when a pot of soup and a pot of coffee were on the back burners every day. Mama and Ma Hale called it “Scrap Soup.” How comforting and cozy to sit at the table with hands wrapped around a mug, sipping soup that warmed body and soul.
When I moved to Jefferey Avenue, I introduced my nephews and niece there to this delicious dish, but there was a bit of difference in the flavor (the early soup was made with vegetables fresh from Ma Hale’s backyard garden). Ma Hale would put a soup bone into a big stew pot, add water, the saved tips, ends from beets, carrots, skin from onions and potatoes, stems from greens, hulls from green peas, cores from cabbage and cauliflower. She’d add a bit of salt pork or bacon rind, and, lastly, seasoning to taste. The aroma filled the house as it steeped slowly on the back burner of the wood-fired stove, and the soup I received for my birthday reminded me so much of the scrap soup of yesteryears that I keep ordering more!
Wonderful Wanda! I love reading what you write. You’ve had so many experiences in your life. Take care and stay safe!
Wanda, I never heard it called “scrap soup” before. But I love it and will use the term from now on. I’m always improvising soup recipes, but your’s is one for the ages. I’ll think of you every time I make it. My latest concoction was using Thanksgiving leftovers with my mother’s homemade egg noodles. My favorite part of your story is the aroma, which adds more depth to the idea of a wood-burning stove. Thank you!!!
Oh Wanda, what a lovely story and as happens so often, your memories bring on my own memories. We also had d wood-burning stove and something was always simmering on the back-burner. You painted a wonderfully cozy picture for these chilly days, thank you! And now, I think I’ll make a pot of veggie soup – too bad I don’t have any bacon rind.
Lovely story! I love a cup of delicious soup on a cold winter day. It’s the little things in life that make the difference.
What a lovely story. Mouth watering soup. I wish I could have one cup of that soup right now to warm my body and soul.
Wanda dear,
Your stories are proof that a picture could never take the place of one thousand or even 200
words from your pen. Your words create all the visuals I need to transport me to a better place. Thanks you for inviting me into your house for that cup of scrap soup.
I get nostalgic about such simple life. Love Wanda’s vivid stories!
Oh, Iliana, I do, too. And it’s such an honor to share them here. Thank you all for leaving these sweet comments– I’m seeing to it that they get to Wanda, so keep ’em coming!
Another wonderful story by the amazing Wanda. How I would like to sit across from you holding a mug of Scrap Soup and listening to your stories. Maybe soon.
Heartwarming thoughts of days gone by. Good hot soup on a winter day.
Thanks for the memories, Wanda.
How lovely Ma Wanda! Laying by an imaginary fire place, I have my hands on my chin as your voice grace my ears. Thank you. Please keep those stories coming.
Beth it is so glad to good to hear from you and see you with Wanda. She is an amazing lady who I will never forget. Please continue to share your blog with me I love the story. Most of all I love seeing you. Can’t wait to come back to your writing class once we all get our vaccines. Every time I drive by the empty cultural center I think of what great camaraderie and wonderful friends you brought together to share stories. I do hope Mike has completely recovered from his bout of Corona think about him and 🙏pray for both of you all the time.
so good to hear from all of you Me, Myself & I writers! Wanda and I are on different biological clocks (I wake up early in the morning, she goes to bed around 2 a.m. and doesn’t wake up until the afternoon!) but I’m hoping to stay up late tonight and call her to make sure she links here to read all your comments — it’s likely she’ll be looking out the window at the bee-you-ti-ful snow outside then. And Mary, thanks for your thoughts about Mike, he still does get dizzy from time to time but we feel fortunate that is his only lingering “longhauler” symptom.
Oh, how I miss staying after class at the Cultural Center, chatting w/Wanda till her Pace ride arrived. I miss her hugs and her laugh. She has lived an amazing life. I cannot wait till our class can reconvene in person again. I LOVE, LOVE, LOVE Wanda!
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