Happy Immunity Day! It’s been 14 days since Mike and I got our second Pfizer vaccine, and I’m celebrating by leading a memoir-writing class in person this afternoon.
The last memoir-writing class I taught in person met 13 months ago. It is downright amazing how quickly we all adjusted to using Zoom and meeting online. So comfortable that, as much as I hate to admit it, I’m feeling a little anxiety over physically attending class in a few hours. A story on CNBC tells me this is normal –sort of.
More than a year into the pandemic, people have become accustomed to the lives they’ve built and the routines they’ve created in their “Covid caves” and are not looking forward to a return to normal.
For some, this comes from an extreme fear of the disease, or anxiety about reacclimating into society.
Others have found that the pandemic has brought about positive changes in their lives, and they’re afraid of losing what they’ve gained.
My anxiety has little to do with the COVID virus: today’s class meets at Admiral-at-the-Lake, a Chicago senior housing facility where every resident and all staff members received their vaccines in February. I’ve been fully vaccinated, my writers have all been fully vaccinated, we all can meet in the conference room around one table and, get this: read essays with our masks off. So why am I nervous? It’s the little stuff.
How did I used to get there every week? What’s the address again? Do I have the right cash to tip the cab driver? What time should I leave so I get there on time? What should I wear? Will my good pants still fit? What do I need to bring? Where is my lipstick? In class we pass Scrabble tiles around to see who reads first, second, third…where on earth did I stash my little zippered bag of Scrabble tiles after classes were cancelled last year? Will my bus pass still work? My Seeing Eye dog has only been to the Admiral once or twice, will she get me into the lobby alright? What prompt should I assign for next week? Is my iPhone fully charged?
I look forward to coming home this afternoon, rereading this post and wondering what I was so worried about. But that comes later. Now, I’d better start getting ready.
Looking forward hearing about the first in-person class! Yay for you!
Good luck!
I totally relate!
Oh Beth, I can so relate. I know it will go beautifully, but please let us know how great it feels to be back home again after your adventure.
Appreciate the request, Heidi. Think I’ll write aabout it all for the “Saturdays with Senors” post this week: stay tuned!
For me, it’s been baby steps–running in and out of stores for targeted items or sitting on someone’s porch. You sound like you’re doing the swimming pool dive in all at once. You’ll be fine.
You know, I’ve long been the sort of person to “dive in.” That’s why it caught me off guard to make such a big deal out of what used to be so routine. Perhaps the Pandemic will leave me slowing down a bit? We’ll see.
Thanks for sharing all these details, Beth–around one table, masks off!–I’m feeling the adventure like it was a trip around the world. Enjoy!
Funny. As I was putting everything in my bag I was reminded of packing for trips overseas. Weird! Glad my post was helpful to you, and hope you’ll be able to lead your clsses in person again soon. It really is fun!
I can so relate to all your qualms, Beth. Glad to know that you are getting back out there, though. I know you’ll do great!
Comforting to hear I’m not the only one with qualms…
Beth,
A possible topic: Transitions. This could incorporate each writer’s interpretation, but a possibility is the change in feelings and actual preparing to travel from inside to outside…..Agoraphobia explored.
Janie
Transitions. I’ll ad it to my list of potential prompts. Thanks, Janie.
I fully understand what you say Beth. I had similar feelings, although it is much easier for me – a fully retired old seeing guy who only has to take the elevator to meet you- But I really appreciate you having taking the trouble to be here today! It was really nice to see you and Luna and to hear your wise words in person. Thank you very much!!!
Oh, José, one more thing. Loved the story you read Thursday of Easter celebrations during your childhood in Argentina. Looking forward to hearing more in the Thursdays to come.
Beth, this sounds like a great story in the making. I have no doubt it will be thrilling and have a happy ending. How about “a courageous event” as a topic?
I’ll add it to my list of prompts — thanks for the suggestion!
Oh, José, the pleasure was all mine. My favorite part is to hear everyone enjoying the essays together and, sometimes, all laughing at the same time.
Hard to hear — and feel — that via Zoom. Already looking for in-person class again next week, so many great stories today.
Thanks to all for your other comments, too. I trust you can tell from my comment above that it all went well. I’ll share details soon. Right now I’m taking Luna out for a long walk, she behaved very well and seemed right at home after not having been to the Admiral in over a year!
I can understand your anxieties, especially the on about your clothes still fitting. Everyone is going through the anxiety and exhilaration of a mask-free environment. Freedom is not there when with the general public, but with close friends, yes!
Again you are showing us how it’s done … your anxieties are shared by many of us. And stepping out into the ‘real’ world again takes a little courage . But, hey, here we come! So glad it all turned out so well (of course)!
“Here we come.” I love that!
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