What? Me Worry? Getting Back to Normal

April 14, 2021 • Posted in blindness, careers/jobs for people who are blind, Seeing Eye dogs, teaching memoir, travel, writing prompts by

Happy Immunity Day! It’s been 14 days since Mike and I got our second Pfizer vaccine, and I’m celebrating by leading a memoir-writing class in person this afternoon.

Luna’s not worried.

The last memoir-writing class I taught in person met 13 months ago. It is downright amazing how quickly we all adjusted to using Zoom and meeting online. So comfortable that, as much as I hate to admit it, I’m feeling a little anxiety over physically attending class in a few hours. A story on CNBC tells me this is normal –sort of.

More than a year into the pandemic, people have become accustomed to the lives they’ve built and the routines they’ve created in their “Covid caves” and are not looking forward to a return to normal.

For some, this comes from an extreme fear of the disease, or anxiety about reacclimating into society.

Others have found that the pandemic has brought about positive changes in their lives, and they’re afraid of losing what they’ve gained.

My anxiety has little to do with the COVID virus: today’s class meets at Admiral-at-the-Lake, a Chicago senior housing facility where every resident and all staff members received their vaccines in February. I’ve been fully vaccinated, my writers have all been fully vaccinated, we all can meet in the conference room around one table and, get this: read essays with our masks off. So why am I nervous? It’s the little stuff.

How did I used to get there every week? What’s the address again? Do I have the right cash to tip the cab driver? What time should I leave so I get there on time? What should I wear? Will my good pants still fit? What do I need to bring? Where is my lipstick? In class we pass Scrabble tiles around to see who reads first, second, third…where on earth did I stash my little zippered bag of Scrabble tiles after classes were cancelled last year? Will my bus pass still work? My Seeing Eye dog has only been to the Admiral once or twice, will she get me into the lobby alright? What prompt should I assign for next week? Is my iPhone fully charged?

I look forward to coming home this afternoon, rereading this post and wondering what I was so worried about. But that comes later. Now, I’d better start getting ready.

Laura On April 14, 2021 at 12:25 pm

Looking forward hearing about the first in-person class! Yay for you!

Agnieszka On April 14, 2021 at 12:37 pm

Good luck!

Christine Towles On April 14, 2021 at 12:37 pm

I totally relate!

Heidi thorsen On April 14, 2021 at 12:48 pm

Oh Beth, I can so relate. I know it will go beautifully, but please let us know how great it feels to be back home again after your adventure.

Beth On April 16, 2021 at 10:01 am

Appreciate the request, Heidi. Think I’ll write aabout it all for the “Saturdays with Senors” post this week: stay tuned!

marlene targ brill On April 14, 2021 at 12:54 pm

For me, it’s been baby steps–running in and out of stores for targeted items or sitting on someone’s porch. You sound like you’re doing the swimming pool dive in all at once. You’ll be fine.

Beth On April 16, 2021 at 9:23 am

You know, I’ve long been the sort of person to “dive in.” That’s why it caught me off guard to make such a big deal out of what used to be so routine. Perhaps the Pandemic will leave me slowing down a bit? We’ll see.

Linda Miller On April 14, 2021 at 1:44 pm

Thanks for sharing all these details, Beth–around one table, masks off!–I’m feeling the adventure like it was a trip around the world. Enjoy!

Beth On April 16, 2021 at 9:47 am

Funny. As I was putting everything in my bag I was reminded of packing for trips overseas. Weird! Glad my post was helpful to you, and hope you’ll be able to lead your clsses in person again soon. It really is fun!

Mary Rayis On April 14, 2021 at 1:54 pm

I can so relate to all your qualms, Beth. Glad to know that you are getting back out there, though. I know you’ll do great!

Beth On April 16, 2021 at 9:44 am

Comforting to hear I’m not the only one with qualms…

R. Janie Isackson On April 14, 2021 at 2:39 pm

Beth,
A possible topic: Transitions. This could incorporate each writer’s interpretation, but a possibility is the change in feelings and actual preparing to travel from inside to outside…..Agoraphobia explored.
Janie

Beth On April 16, 2021 at 9:15 am

Transitions. I’ll ad it to my list of potential prompts. Thanks, Janie.

Jose DiMauro On April 14, 2021 at 3:07 pm

I fully understand what you say Beth. I had similar feelings, although it is much easier for me – a fully retired old seeing guy who only has to take the elevator to meet you- But I really appreciate you having taking the trouble to be here today! It was really nice to see you and Luna and to hear your wise words in person. Thank you very much!!!

Beth On April 16, 2021 at 9:12 am

Oh, José, one more thing. Loved the story you read Thursday of Easter celebrations during your childhood in Argentina. Looking forward to hearing more in the Thursdays to come.

Mel Theobald On April 14, 2021 at 3:43 pm

Beth, this sounds like a great story in the making. I have no doubt it will be thrilling and have a happy ending. How about “a courageous event” as a topic?

Beth On April 16, 2021 at 9:08 am

I’ll add it to my list of prompts — thanks for the suggestion!

Beth On April 14, 2021 at 3:44 pm

Oh, José, the pleasure was all mine. My favorite part is to hear everyone enjoying the essays together and, sometimes, all laughing at the same time.
Hard to hear — and feel — that via Zoom. Already looking for in-person class again next week, so many great stories today.

Beth On April 14, 2021 at 3:47 pm

Thanks to all for your other comments, too. I trust you can tell from my comment above that it all went well. I’ll share details soon. Right now I’m taking Luna out for a long walk, she behaved very well and seemed right at home after not having been to the Admiral in over a year!

Sheila A. Donovan On April 15, 2021 at 9:03 am

I can understand your anxieties, especially the on about your clothes still fitting. Everyone is going through the anxiety and exhilaration of a mask-free environment. Freedom is not there when with the general public, but with close friends, yes!

Annelore On April 15, 2021 at 10:25 pm

Again you are showing us how it’s done … your anxieties are shared by many of us. And stepping out into the ‘real’ world again takes a little courage . But, hey, here we come! So glad it all turned out so well (of course)!

Beth Finke On April 16, 2021 at 9:57 am

“Here we come.” I love that!

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