Saturdays with Seniors: Maggy asks, “What are we witnessing?”

April 24, 2021 • Posted in guest blog, memoir writing, writing prompts by

I am pleased to have Maggy Fouché as our Saturdays with Seniors guest blogger today. The prompt for this past week was “Witness” and Maggy’s essay shows she’s been keeping her eye on a lot lately!

by Maggy Fouché

My friend Ted and I have been regularly emailing each other about amazing corporate social changes. Aunt Jemima pancakes will get a new name! IBM declares it will get out of the facial recognition business! Walgreens’ new CEO is a black female! Band Aid will introduce products in a variety of skin tones!

Ted was my boss before he became a friend. A well-known executive in the multi-billion-dollar personal care industry, Ted boasted a long and successful career that started with the small relaxer company his chemist stepfather launched in the 60’s and eventually sold to Revlon.

Ted hired me in the 1980s to be the marketing director of what was then called the “ethnic” hair care division of a long-established salon-specialty corporation. After my dad, he was the smartest man I’d ever met, seemingly knowledgeable about everything from ancient Greek philosophy to the latest urban slang. Just before the meeting with the CEO to present the new product launch plan, he stopped to correct his secretary’s posture so that she sat with elbows and wrists at proper angles to the typewriter, as prescribed in the IBM manual.

Ted knew that the most important item in our new product line would be the relaxer and its ability to thoroughly straighten hair. In side-by-side trials in the testing salon, however, our relaxer did not perform as well as the leading competitor. We learned that the formula contained buffers that the chemists said were necessary to lessen the potential damage to the hair.

Ted argued that any damage would be repaired by the post-relaxer conditioning treatment that contained the parent company’s legendary restoring serum. But R&D refused to change the formula which, they proudly informed us, they’d spent ten years developing. “Ten years,” Ted said to me later. “What’s the matter with those guys? In ten years they could have developed an atomic bomb!”

The corporate bosses were unwilling to rely on Ted’s product expertise. The product launch was a disappointment and our division failed to meet sales goals in the succeeding quarters. After about three years our division was disbanded.

Ted and I kept in touch through the ensuing years of our respective careers. Now retired, Ted has plenty of time on his hands and diligently tracks the corporate response to America’s racial unrest.

An undertone of amazement runs through our conversations, amazement at how quickly these changes have come about in the inflexible, conservative, risk-averse culture of big business. He was more philosophical when he wrote me about Major League Baseball’s decision to combine the stats of Negro League players with that of their white counterparts. I leave you here with his own words:

What are we to conclude from these turnabouts along with others affecting American Society? My theory: The George Floyd tragedy triggered a slow-moving earthquake in how Americans of all ethnicities see each other. More change is necessary before the battle is entirely won, but this surrender by America’s favorite sport, professional baseball, is a symbolic milestone not to be lightly dismissed. Stay tuned for what is yet to follow.

Sheila A. Donovan On April 24, 2021 at 10:22 am

Wonderful essay which will open the eyes of many people.

Mary Rayis On April 24, 2021 at 10:37 am

Interesting observations! I find myself questioning words and expressions I’ve known and used since I was a child: “getting gyped,” “chop chop,” etc. My daughter’s college is having a raging debate about changing the name of it s school paper, The Orient. School names are being changed as we reckon with our past offhand acceptance of white supremacy. It is truly a remarkable age, and I’m glad I’m alive to see it.

Lynn LaPlante On April 24, 2021 at 11:08 am

Wait a minute, is this “my” Maggy Fouche? From the CJP? If so, I marvel at all the connections!!

Excellent piece!

Hank On April 24, 2021 at 11:56 am

Nice piece. Thank you,
Glad to hear that Band-Aid is expanding its offerings. It has always struck me as disrespectful to see the glaring contrast between the color of bandages and some wearers’ skin tones. Hopefully other similar examples of institutional racism will crumble soon too.

Maggy Fouche On April 24, 2021 at 1:02 pm

Hi Lynn, yes it’s me from the CJP! Thanks for the compliment. I’ve enjoyed reading your work too and wondering how all is going “Backwards and in High Heels”!

Annelore On April 24, 2021 at 3:24 pm

A well written account of the small steps we are making towards a more just world – thank you, Maggy

Diana On April 24, 2021 at 4:19 pm

Great essay. One of the most informative ones I’ve read. Very thought provoking.

Maggy Fouche On April 24, 2021 at 9:03 pm

Sheila, thank you for the positive comment. I hope it will be eye-opening. Every little bit helps!

Maggy Fouche On April 24, 2021 at 9:11 pm

Hi Mary, you are so right about the phrases we use without thinking. In many ways the younger generation is showing us the way.

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