Wanda’s Stories Live On

November 10, 2022 • Posted in Blogroll, careers/jobs for people who are blind, memoir writing, teaching memoir by

We got the news Monday morning. Our dear friend Wanda Bridgeforth had died. Wanda’s daughter, Wanda Jr., had texted me last week to let me know “Mama is in hospice care at home.” She added, “Don’t be sad about this, Mama l-i-v-e-d long…and much!”

I was grateful to Junior for that message — her letting me know about hospice made the news about Wanda’s death easier to swallow. Wanda was 101 years old. She’d been in my “Me, Myself & I” memoir-writing class 15 years, sharing her life stories there with us every week. What joy and wonderment I feel now, having had the honor to know Wanda , meet her family, laugh with her…it’s all pretty miraculous.

Thinking about Wanda so much this past week got me reminiscing about meeting her for the first time: it all happened when she was in the audience at Printers Row Book Fair in 2007 to see her friend Minerva (another writer in the memoir class I led back then) appear with me at a presentation there. Here’s the story.>

That’s Wanda earlier this year, modeling her 1960 Easter bonnet for her home health care worker.

“Minerva told me she was going to be in the book fair with her teacher, and I should come and meet Beth Finke,” Wanda told me, explaining that Minerva and Wanda had been friends since DuSable High School opened in 1935. Minerva hadn’t mentioned that I was blind, and Wanda was sitting so far back that she didn’t see my Seeing Eye dog Hanni at my feet until she walked up to say hello. “I said ‘Holy Toledo! A blind lady teaching a writing class? This I gotta see!’”

I invited her to sit in on a class, and she signed right up.
Minerva and Wanda brought a slice of Chicago history with them to class every week. Tens of thousands of Southern blacks flooded into Chicago during the Great Migration of the early 20th century. Minerva’s parents came from Georgia, Wanda’s came from Mississippi, and the stories these two read in class describe Bronzeville, the segregated neighborhood they grew up in, as a “city within a city.”

Overcrowding, joblessness, and poverty was a fact of life, but so was literature, jazz, blues, and gospel music.

DuSable High School, the first Chicago high school built exclusively for African-American students, opened in the Bronzeville neighborhood in 1935. Minerva transferred in as a sophomore, and Wanda was a freshman. “I was in the birthday class,” Wanda would remind us any time her beloved high school was mentioned. DuSable was built on Chicago’s South Side 15 years before the Brown v. Board of Education decision. Wanda says it was built to keep schools segregated. “We were blocked in,” she’d write. “We knew not to cross Cottage Grove, 51st Street or the train tracks.” Everyone inside those boundaries was Black. “That was our neighborhood, and DuSable was our neighborhood high school.”

When DuSable first opened, some neighborhood parents applied for permits to get their children into nearby White high schools. “Their parents didn’t think a Black school could be any good,” Wanda wrote, adding that she felt sorry for those kids. True, DuSable classes could be very crowded; she remembers 50 or so students squeezing into classrooms. “But at those other schools, if you were Black and you wanted to be in a play, you had to be a maid or a butler,” she wrote. “At DuSable, we did everything, we were in all the plays, we wrote the school newspaper. We were having such a good time at DuSable.”

Between the two of them, Minerva and Wanda were at the high school between 1935 and 1939. During those years they walked the hallways with some pretty impressive classmates, including Nat King Cole; John H. Johnson, publisher of Ebony and Jet magazines; Harold Washington, first African-American mayor of Chicago; comedian Redd Foxx; and singer Dinah Washington.

“Nat Cole added King to his name later,” Wanda would tell me with a laugh. “You know, like Old King Cole!” They remembered Dinah Washington when she was Ruth Jones, and they knew Redd Foxx as Jon Sanford. “His brother was Fred, that’s who Sanford and Son is named for,” Wanda told us, reminiscing about the old television series. . “They changed their names once they were stars.”

DuSable’s initial fame was in its music program, and Wanda and Minerva both sang during “Hi-Jinks” student talent shows there. “We were in the background, but we put on shows that were better than what was going on in Chicago professional theatres,” Wanda wrote. “With musicians like Ruthie Jones and Nat Cole and all of those guys, we couldn’t miss!”

And with writers like Minerva and Wanda in the memoir-writing classes I’ve led over the years, I couldn’t miss, either. Their stories live on through the essays they wrote — I am so, so grateful. As Wanda always liked to say…”Hugs all around!”

Bill Healy On November 10, 2022 at 10:52 am

So sorry to hear this, Beth. I loved hearing your interview with Wanda at StoryCorps. She sounds like a force! A life well-lived.

Laura Gale On November 10, 2022 at 10:57 am

I’m sorry for your loss yet happy that you have such wonderful memories. And that Wanda enjoyed herself so much. What a rich life indeed.

Tara M Waysok On November 10, 2022 at 11:06 am

So sorry for your loss. I always enjoy reading about your amazing students. It feels as if we know them too.

Hank On November 10, 2022 at 11:10 am

So sorry for you loss. I know she was very special to you. We will all miss her wonderful stories and insights gained over a long fruitful life. But, she will live on in her written words and in our memories. May her memory be a blessing.

Jenny Fischer On November 10, 2022 at 11:30 am

Thanks for sharing Wanda with us for all these years!

Susan Ohde On November 10, 2022 at 11:38 am

When I remember the story Wanda told about her and her brothers at church with everyone fainting I still laugh way out loud! Rest in Peace, wonderful Wanda.

Doug Finke On November 10, 2022 at 12:01 pm

A warm and touching story. I could feel her pride and her happiness. Thanks for sharing.

Lola Hotchkis On November 10, 2022 at 1:16 pm

Thank you for sharing Wanda’s slice of Bronzeville life. She had wonderful stories and I’m so glad she shared them.

Annelore On November 10, 2022 at 1:49 pm

Yes, ‘hugs all around’ – as Wanda so loved the world and life, in spite of the difficulties life dealt her,
Yes, everyone who was blessed to meet Wanda was received with open arms. She was the light and the spark in our class, especially the spark. That Wanda-kind of humor was both wise and funny.
Yes, while we miss her, she’ll always be with us. I hug you Wanda.

Mel Theobald On November 10, 2022 at 2:22 pm

I like to say, “Every life lived is an epic.” No one proves this more than Wanda. With mixed feelings, I’m sad to hear she is gone, but very glad she got to leave her mark on so many people. Although I never met her, Beth has brought her back to life. I’d love to read her memoirs.

Vera Dowell On November 10, 2022 at 3:36 pm

Loved reading about Wanda and Minerva!

Thanks!

Jeff Flodin On November 10, 2022 at 4:43 pm

Thank you, Beth, for getting the word out on Wanda. She was a delight to hear in your memoir classes. What spirit, spunk, humor and humility were hers! Jeff

Jose DiMauro On November 10, 2022 at 5:25 pm

Wanda had a long and interesting life. Thank you for sharing it with us.

Marilee On November 10, 2022 at 5:44 pm

Hugs all around. Thank you for sharing some of Wanda’s stories. I learned so much more about the history of Chicago and the people that lived in different neighborhoods. Wanda was so welcoming and interested in the people around her. I am happy that I met her and had a chance to visit with her at Printers Row events and visits to your class.

Deborah Darsie On November 10, 2022 at 7:39 pm

Thank you for letting us know, Wanda sure was a bright spot in your stories from your classes. What a life she had and shared with us all.

My heart hurts for her family, no matter the age, when someone dies it leaves an ache. But Wanda sure left us with many stories as well!

Sheila A. Donovan On November 10, 2022 at 8:06 pm

Wanda was a a treasure and I will miss her so!

Beth On November 11, 2022 at 11:21 am

Marilee, you said it perfectly: Wanda *was* very welcoming, and also sincerely interested in the people around her — as shown by the long list of comments from all of you who were so fond of Wanda. Thank you all for your notes here, so comforting. Hugs all around!

Kirsten Kavanaugh On November 11, 2022 at 12:14 pm

Such an interesting lady! Thanks for sharing! She will be missed and remembered with love.

Chris On November 11, 2022 at 12:54 pm

What a wonderful person! Thank you, Beth, for introducing Wanda to us.

Zenobia L Silas-Carson On November 12, 2022 at 2:32 am

Thank you for introducing us to Miss Wanda! You are such an inspiration to me and others! I am working on my memoir and dealing with failing low vision, but I think of you and get the extra strength I need to move on and now I have some major people looking into my writing. I hope to meet you one day. I am from Chicago…born and raised and now age 75.
RIP Miss Wanda!

Cheryl On November 12, 2022 at 9:49 pm

Wanda was a treasure. She had so many wonderful stories to share and we’re all so thankful that she met up with you Beth, so you could give her a venue to tell her stories. Hugs all around.

Maureen Lugg On November 19, 2022 at 6:03 pm

Sorry to hear of Wanda’s passing But she brings back fond memories of her & her stories in class when I attended in 2006-2008 thereabout . I was the person who worked as an usher at Wrigley in my retirement. Wanda lived a long time & truly lived a happy life & spread that happiness to all who crossed her path. I love reading your student stories each week as you keep us posted on all the happenings in your life. Blessings to you at Thanksgiving time.

Mondays with Mike: Counting blessings • Beth Finke On January 2, 2023 at 7:53 pm

[…] But there was loss, a lot of it. There was our friend and neighbor Janet, Beth’s niece Stacie (not all that long after the premature loss of her nephew Robbie), my Urbana friend Barry, the irascible and inimitable Brad, Flavio of Printers Row Wine, and the regal, one-and-only Wanda Bridgeforth. […]

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