Meet my Role Model, Jason Benetti

October 28, 2023 • Posted in baseball, blindness, careers/jobs for people who are blind, Mondays with Mike by
photo of Beth and Jason Benetti at White Sox charity event

That’s me (and Luna) with Jason Benetti at a White Sox charity event.

Many of the things I take on are difficult to do without being able to see. Some are even scary.

I used to keep that to myself, afraid that admitting it would give others license to put me in a disability “box” and assume I have limitations that just aren’t there.

Enter sports broadcaster Jason Benetti, a role model for me since 2018. That’s the year he started doing play-by-play alongside baseball analyst Steve Stone for NBC Sports Chicago.

Broadcaster Jason Benetti was born with cerebral palsy, and When it comes to living above and beyond the pigeonholes some try to squeeze disabled people into, he’s my guy.

Back in 2021, Peter Sagal, the host of NPR’s “Wait Wait…Don’t Tell Me,” wrote a terrific piece about Jason for Chicago Magazine. The title of the story, “The Storyteller of the White Sox,” is followed by this fabulous tagline: “If you follow the White Sox, you likely know broadcaster Jason Benetti was born with cerebral palsy. But that’s just the start of his story.”

Jason was born 10 weeks early and spent his first three months of life in neonatal intensive care. Diagnosed with cerebral palsy as a toddler, he grew up in a south suburb of Chicago. Both of his parents are White Sox fans, and for Jason, doing play-by-play for the Sox is a dream job.

And that White Sox gig is by no means the only broadcasting he does. If you’re a sports fan, you might have heard him broadcasting other Major League Baseball games, or doing college football games (he’s doing Kansas-Oklahoma on Fox as I write this) and NCAA basketball, too. Jason is smart and funny and calls the plays so well that I, his number 1 blind fan, can picture them.

In his Chicago Magazine article on Benetti, Peter Sagal paints a pretty good picture in words, too. Here’s how Sagal explains the way Benetti — and many other people with disabilities — have to adjust our own attitudes sometimes. From the article:

Jason knows people stare at him. They always have. Jason knows that his legs are oddly curved, that he walks with a full-body hitch in his step, and that his eyes point in two different directions, making people who don’t know him think he’s congenitally stupid. Jason is far too kind to put it this way, and too well mannered, but his remarkable career and potentially unlimited success isn’t a triumph over adversity. It’s a message to everybody who ever called him a gimp, to parents who told their children not to stare, to the flight attendant who asked him three times if he could handle the weighty duties of sitting in an exit row.

Peter Sagal’s Chicago Magazine article is not one about Jason “overcoming” a disability or working “despite” his disability, but one about Jason’s work in a highly-competitive field. When it comes to sports broadcasting, Benetti’s achievements speak for themselves.

My husband Mike, a big White Sox fan, read the Chicago Magazine story out loud to me when it came out. That way I wouldn’t have to hear it online in my talking computer’s robotic voice. When he got to a part where Sagal writes about Jason’s view of the tendency to make poster children out of people with disabilities, Mike said, “You know, I’ve always felt this way, too, but I never would have been able to articulate it like Jason Benetti does!” From the article:

I ask him about his role as a symbol of hope and triumph to the disabled and abled alike. He remains sensitive about it, especially the suspicion — fading but still lingering — that he got his chances to succeed only so he could make everybody else feel better. “You know those video clips where, say, the high school football team lets its disabled manager suit up and take the field and the other team lets him score a touchdown? I have an aversion to those. It’s like dropping food on a country in a famine. It’s nice and a good thing … but what’s going to happen after that?”

The part I myself related to the most came towards the end of the article, when friends from his days at Syracuse University chime in. One of them points out that back in college, Jason tripped an fell more than others did:

And we were walking one night home from a party, and he tripped and fell. And none of us cared — it was very normal. It’s not like he was being bullied by anyone…He was trying so hard to not have his disability be a factor that when it did, he … got angry.”

The angry part? I’m afraid that’s the part I could especially relate to. When coming back home after a walk with my Seeing Eye dog, I sometimes grope for a while before finding the door handle to get back inside. When crossing the streets here, we aren’t always exactly in the middle of the crosswalk. I know where the local mailbox is, but I don’t always find the slot to put the letters in right away.

I’m fine with making mistakes like that…unless someone sees me do them. Then I get flustered, worried how they’re judging me, frustrated. I read that last excerpt over again and see that my role model’s old college friend used past tense when mentioning Jason’s reaction: he got angry. That implies he doesn’t get that way anymore. Time for me to make that change, too.

I hope you’ll read Peter Sagal’s 2021 piece in Chicago Magazine. But if you want a quick take on Jason Benetti, check out this children’s book I wrote about him for anItty-Bitty Bio series that
Cherry Lake Publishing Group, an educational and children’s book publisher based in Ann Arbor, Michigan, published this year.
Cherry Lake has been publishing books for first graders for years, but this year they decided to seek out published authors who have disabilities to write about a role model of theirs who also has a disability. As one of the selected writers, of course I singled out Jason Benetti as my role model.

Earlier this year the publisher set up a Zoom meeting so I could do an online interview with Jason to learn more about him, and a month ago I had the wonderful privilege of meeting Jason Benetti face to face at a White Sox Charities luncheon at White Sox Park. I’ll leave you here with a Jason Benetti quote I especially like and used for his Itty Bitty Bio: “I think it’s good that people are all different from each other.
That way the world is ever changing, more open minded, and ever beautiful.”

Diane Coron Koziel On October 28, 2023 at 4:04 pm

Bet another beautiful and meaningful post. Thank you!

Douglas Finke On October 28, 2023 at 4:30 pm

Another moving story

Marilee On October 28, 2023 at 4:32 pm

Great article! I am going to look for the Peter Sagal article. And glad to know that you are choosing not to be angry – as Elsa sings “let it go”

Marilee On October 28, 2023 at 4:36 pm

And just like that I have found the article and will read now:):)

Lola On October 28, 2023 at 5:00 pm

Great article, Beth. I’m glad you finally met Jason. I read the Chicago Magazine article when it was first published. You and Jason are role models for all of us. You’ve done more for the world than those without “disabilities.” You both power through so the rest of us are oblivious to how you walk or how you reach for the door handle.

Bev On October 28, 2023 at 5:03 pm

Love this story. Win, win relationship.

Craig Metros On October 28, 2023 at 5:05 pm

Hi Beth

Great article-thanks! I owe you and Mike a call. Lisa and I would love to meet you both in the city sometime and have dinner. Here’s my mobile number: 847-703-3500.

Enjoy your weekend!

Craig

Mel Theobald On October 28, 2023 at 8:16 pm

Beth, this has to be one of the most soulful writings you have ever posted. If Jason Benetti inspired it, bravo to him. I can’t tell you how much you have meant to me, often through the voices of children, and helped me know that there is both humor and beauty in accepting the realities we all face.

Nancy B On October 28, 2023 at 9:25 pm

Love that photo! You and Jason are beaming and Luna is gazing up at you. Great story and we love the Itty Bitty Bio!

Beth Henning-Durkin On July 22, 2024 at 6:57 pm

Beth, I am delighted to have come across your story on Jason Benetti! We in Detroit Tiger land are so, so blessed and grateful to have Jason on “our side” now. I’ve loved him since the first time I heard him speak. And, you, dear lady, are a beautiful human being! Thank you for a making my day.

Beth Henning-Durkin

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