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A visit with Tootsie

April 27, 201812 CommentsPosted in blindness, guide dogs, questions kids ask, Seeing Eye dogs, travel, visiting schools

Hello from the Amodt Inn, the lovely Orlando home of my sister Marilee and her husband Rick Amodt — just got back from giving a short presentation at their granddaughter’s preschool. Experience has taught me that preschoolers have a hard time grasping what blindness is (much less formulating questions about it), but who could resist an invite from a three-year-old sweetheart named Toots?

Okay, okay, that’s not her real name. It’s just what I call her.

Photo of Beth in front of pre-schoolers.

One of them is sitting on a dog.

The kids were all seated criss-cross applesauce when we arrived, and I started the presentation by asking Kennedy for permission to call her Toots in front of her friends. “No, Aunt Beth,” she answered, sounding a bit indignant. “I’m Tootsie.” So Tootsie it was. In exchange, all the kids there called me Aunt Beth.

Their teacher, who boasts the remarkable name Ms. Schooley, had read my children’s book Hanni and Beth: Safe & Sound to the children the day before we arrived, and after that the kids had taken turns playing pretend: some were blind, and some were puppies. “A couple puppies ran their blind people into tables,” she told me. “But everyone survived.”

I kept my presentation short, and Tootsie came to the front afterwards to call on her school friends who had questions. Or, I should say, statements.

    • I have a cat.
    • Aunt Beth, your picture is up there on the wall
    • Yesterday I was the puppy, and Olivia was my blind lady.
    • Aunt Beth, your dog is licking itself.
    • I’m sitting on a dog.

It was reverse roles, kind of Jeopardy-for-preschoolers. They had the answers, I posed the questions. “What’s your cat’s name? and “Which did you like better, being blind or being the puppy? Ms. Schooley must have noticed the dumbfounded look on my face after that last statement about sitting on a dog: she explained how each carpet tile was a different letter of the alphabet. Nolan was sitting on D for dog. The kids took it from there, each child letting me in on which letter they were sitting on. “I’m on I, for igloo!” “I’m on Z, for zebra.” And with that, Tootsie sat down again. She wanted to call out her letter, too. ”I’m on X, for X-Ray!”

Ms. Schooley stepped in then with a compliment. “That’s all very good,“ she said. “But does anyone have a question? Luke’s hand shot up. “I do! I do!” he said. “Aunt Beth, Did you know I’m four years old?

Success! Ali & Joe’s big adventure

April 24, 20189 CommentsPosted in blindness, guest blog, technology for people who are blind, travel, writing

Last week we published a post here listing questions my young friend Ali had while planning a trip with her boyfriend Joe from her college campus to a Chicago jazz club last Sunday. They were celebrating in advance — the actual date of their anniversary is today, April 24, so lift a glass or cup of java today to Ali and Joe on their third anniversary, then keep the celebration going by reading Ali’s fantastic recap of their big adventure.

That's Alicia and Joe sitting side by side on a beige couch at Christmastime. They started dating three years ago, on April 24, 2015.

Alicia  and Joe.

by Alicia Krage

Joe and I tried to plan a trip to Andy’s Jazz Club in Chicago last year for our second anniversary, but it never worked out, so we tried again this year. We have been planning this since December, so needless to say, I’d been looking forward to this for a very long time.

The day finally arrived. I was up early and scheduled our ride from campus to the Elburn train station, and I called Flash Cab Chicago to schedule two rides with them — from the train station to Andy’s, and from Andy’s back to the train station later that night. I informed them that we are both blind, so the driver would have to come get us. The dispatcher added this to her notes, and I could tell from her tone that this was nothing new to them.

The trip from Northern Illinois University to Elburn was nothing new to me. We got to the station just as the train was arriving; I could hear the loud train bells. The driver led us to the platform and onto the train, directed us to our seat, and told us to have a good day as she descended the stairs off the train. And as typical with traveling with Joe, the excited chatter started.

The hour-and-twenty minute train ride didn’t feel quite that long. We pulled in right on schedule, and my excitement quickly turned to nervousness. Here was something unfamiliar to me that I was not exactly confident about: getting off the train and out of the station. I was glad I’d scheduled our pick-up time with Flash Cab for 30 minutes after our train was due in Chicago. I overestimated the time it might take on purpose, just in case the train was late. Or in case it took us a while to get out of the station…or in case I needed to make a stop. Which I did.

I wasn’t sure who to ask. What if someone led us to the restroom and left and we couldn’t find someone to lead us back? I started voicing my worries out loud and, as per usual, Joe calmly said his favorite thing to say when traveling: “We’ll figure it out,” with a reassuring hold onto my hand.

The conductor guided us off the train and asked what we needed. “Well, our cab isn’t coming for a while, so I was wondering if you had an employee that could direct us to a restroom,” I said. I didn’t want to assume he would do it when he likely had other things to attend to, but he said he’d grab his bag and take us.

During the long walk to the restrooms, our conversation was all about what we were doing in the city today, how often we travel on the train, and how impressed he was by our confidence with this being our first trip to the city by ourselves. Once he’d led us to the restrooms, he told us he had another train to get to and informed us that a security guard would be there to lead us the rest of the way. He introduced himself and shook both our hands and departed.

As promised, the security guard was there when I exited. He led us to the exit on Madison Street, where I then received a text that our cab was on its way. There was more excited chatter (I said something like, “Can you believe it? We’re in Chicago!” like I’d never been to the city before in my life and was an out-of-state tourist.)

I received another text saying the cab arrived, but decided to stay put. I always let drivers come to me; I never try and find them. The driver addressed me by name, so I knew it was the right person.

The ride to the jazz club was short, and we arrived just as the dining area opened. Someone was there to greet us, and I gave them my last name for the reservation I had made two weeks ago. He led us to our table, and I immediately took note of the instruments I could hear to our right…very closely to our right. We were sitting right by the band!

Our server came by and asked if we needed help with the menus. Joe and I had done some research prior to this trip and looked up the menu online, but we quickly found out it had been updated since then. We narrowed down our options to pasta, and the server was happy to help.

He read everything and described it to us. He politely asked me to confirm where I got the menu online so they could update it, and I told him. We got our food right as the band began to play, so there wasn’t much conversation. It was too loud, and I was too busy enjoying the music anyway.

We spent two hours in the dining area (including eating dessert, of course), before we asked our server to lead us to the bar, where we quickly struck up conversation with a lady sitting next to me. She was visiting Andy’s Jazz Club for the first time, too.

The bar area was a little better. It was quieter so we could actually talk without having to shout. As soon as I got the text that our cab was on the way, we stood up and someone came over to help us. (People were watching out for us all evening.) They led us out the door just as the cab pulled up.

The cab driver led us into the station and found a security guard, who proceeded to use his radio to request assistance. Someone came and led us to the ticket agent, and once we had our tickets, the employee who led us to the agent then led us on the train.

Unlike the train ride to Chicago, the train ride back from Chicago was quiet. We were both exhausted, so we dozed off, but in-between sleep sessions we had a little bit of conversation. I couldn’t have asked for a better person to travel with and share the last three years of my life with. We talked about doing this as a yearly tradition — that’s how much fun we had.

Our train pulled up right on time, and my cousin met us at the platform to drive us back to campus. I can’t describe the feeling of accomplishment I felt at the end of it. I stepped out of my comfort zone and tried something new, and I knew I’d go back and do this all over again.

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Mondays with Mike: Baseball, Earth Day, bratwursts, and the last straw

April 23, 20184 CommentsPosted in baseball, Beth Finke, Mike Knezovich, Mondays with Mike

We’ve posted here before about our pal Kevin, who is Special Assistant to the General Manager for the World Series Champion Houston Astros. (Can I drop names, or what?)

Photo of Shedd Aquarium staff at a table.

Shedd Aquarium staff were on hand to explain why plastic straws are a threat to marine life.

Well, though he was on the road scouting and unable to attend the game himself, he was generous enough to offer me and Beth seats to yesterday’s White Sox-Astros game. And, it was sunny. And not cold.

There was bratwurst for Beth and me. And beer. For others, there was soda. And popcorn, peanuts, ice cream, polish sausage, nachos, Italian beef…well, any ballpark food you’d want.

But not drinking straws.

Sunday was Earth Day, and the White Sox and Chicago’s Shedd Aquarium (just the best place, get there if you’re from out of town and are visiting) used the occasion to promote a program called Shedd the Straw, whereby participating organizations, including the Chicago White Sox, will not hand out drinking straws unless a customer requests one.

May not sound like a big deal, but it is. Shedd had exhibits in two locations to let people know just how big a deal plastic straws are when it comes to our oceans and waterways. Plastic drinking straws do not decompose and they are virtually impossible to recycle. That means that every plastic straw ever made is still on earth. Or worse, in oceans, lakes, and rivers. And they kill aquatic creatures.

Photo of Bratwurst in foreground, White Sox Park, from behind home plate on the first base side, in the background.

Thanks to Kevin, we had some sweet seats. We bought our own brats.

I’ve never been fond of them, regardless of their environmental impact. Maybe for a milk shake, but that’s about it.

When Beth was invited to sit on a panel at the Shedd about accessibility issues, she learned how dedicated the Shedd is to both the environment and to people with disabilities. Turns out a few people who’d attended Jazzin’ at the Shedd (during the summer the Shedd opens its deck for patrons to enjoy live jazz) had disabilities that required them to use a straw to drink, and the Shedd was happy to provide them. of the curve.

You can’t find a plastic straw at the Shedd. They do have paper ones  on hand and offer those to the anyone who needs one.

But, if you can, I recommend getting crazy—go strawless.

 

Getting fancy with our presentations now

April 19, 20182 CommentsPosted in blindness, guide dogs, Mike Knezovich, public speaking, Seeing Eye dogs, visiting schools

Photo of Beth and Whitney sitting on a street bench.

Hello from Champaign, Illinois! Whitney and I are doing our annual presentation for an animal sciences class at the University of Illinois at Urbana-Champaign today, but this time, we’re adding a special video. From an email I sent to the teacher:

Mike put a Hero GoPro (is that what they’re called?) on Whitney to videotape her leading me around our urban neighborhood for a few blocks. He added written captions to explain to viewers where we’re at — in the end, it’s a city walk from a Seeing Eye dog’s point of view. Just dawned on me that maybe, just maybe you’d think this video Mike took of Whit and me working the streets of Chicago together might be good for your students to see? The link is here, you could edit it or just show a minute of it during our presentation if you think the kids would find it interesting:
http://bethfinke.com/blog/2018/01/01/mondays-mike-walk-mile-paws/

Whitney has been guiding me for six years now, and I think the video might show how confident and comfortable she seems with her work. After that I’ll go over some of the qualifications necessary to become a guide dog instructor and take some questions. The hour will be up before we know it!

Mondays with Mike: Bring Back the Murrow Boys           

April 16, 20188 CommentsPosted in Mike Knezovich, Mondays with Mike, politics

Beth’s been listening to a book called “The Murrow Boys: Pioneers on the Front Lines of Broadcast Journalism.” Which means, because I’m interested in the subject, I’ve been listening to it, too. And it’s been enlightening, heartening, and disheartening all at once. Not to mention, entertaining.

Image of front cover of the book.

Worth the read.

I’ve always understood Edward R. Murrow as a broadcast journalism legend, but what I knew of him had mostly to do with his “See It Now” television news program. I somehow remained ignorant of “Murrow’s boys,” a team of news people who more or less created broadcast journalism with their coverage of the lead up and conduct of World War II. (A shout out is owed here. We wrote about visiting our friends Henry and Benita Black during a snow storm in New York City. It was during our lovely time together that Dr. Black, an avid history buff, recommended the book.)

“The Murrow Boys” is rife with names of broadcast news names I grew up with—Eric Sevareid and Howard K. Smith to name two. But more than that, these people all lived like “The Most Interesting Man in the World” of Dos Equus fame. Jumping out of planes just before they crash, evading cannibals (yes, really), surviving the London Blitz, more jumping out of planes. Waiting on a raft in the English Channel amongst U.S. forces and on land with British soldiers, waiting for D-Day to commence. At one point Eric Sevareid, who had been stationed in Paris (before Nazi occupation) was called to London on assignment. This, while his wife was on bed rest in the hospital waiting to deliver twins. While Sevareid was in London, his children were born. Shortly thereafter, the Nazis arrived. The hospital his wife and children were in lost power.

Sevareid managed to return to Paris and make his way down dark hospital hallways, until he found his wife holding their newborns, crying.

The bravery of the journalists, as well as their perspective in understanding that their plight was not nearly as arduous as the fighting forces they covered, was inspiring. As was the quality of their broadcasts. They grew up in print and knew how to write. And their dispatches were brilliant and gripping. Heartbreakingly, some of their best work was never heard because of how nascent the technology was.

All at a time when broadcast was treated as inherently inferior to conventional print journalism. And when the technology was new. Threatening. Unsettling.

Which reminded me once again of my favorite college class of all time. “The History of Communications” taught me that pretty much every communications technology advance has been treated as threatening—to order, to culture, to society. The printing press. Telegraph. The telephone was treated by many as a threat—a Boston newspaper lamented “the awful and irresponsible power it will give to the average mother-in-law who will be able to send her voice around the habitual world.”

Whew. There’s too much in that one to unpack. But, it does sound familiar, doesn’t it? Remember when we wrung our hands over the World Wide Web? That was quaint. Now it’s social media.

And I’m reminded that as tumultuous as these times are, it’s become clearer and clearer with age that really, the times that are not tumultuous are the exception. That we never get there, wherever “there” is or how you define it. And that, in a real way, we humans are in a constant struggle to understand what’s good and to make sure it wins.

The technology doesn’t matter. The character—the good faith, courage, and values of the people who use the technology—does. Same as it ever was.