Off Leash with Bark Magazine

April 28, 2011 • Posted in Beth Finke, blindness, Blogroll, guide dogs, Seeing Eye dogs, Uncategorized, writing by

Yesterday the editors at Bark Magazine invited me to be a guest on Off Leash, their weekly open-thread real-time chat. I pretended I knew what an open thread real-time chat is and said yes.

They’ve been doing this weekly open thread thing for a while, I guess, but are making one tweak. They want to start inviting special guests to each open thread, and they decided to use me as their “test run” yesterday:

We’ll feature a regular Bark contributor, so readers can drill down on specific topics, such as training, behavior, rescue, activism, animal law and more. Other times, we’ll invite folks we admire to join the conversation.

I’ve never done instant messaging, but I’m guessing my experience yesterday afternoon was kind of what IM is like. Bark fans would comment or ask questions to the thread, and I’d answer in real time. An example from yesterday’s Off Leash thread:

Submitted by Jennifer B on April 27, 2011.
Beth, I’m not blind but I know several people that will be due to degenerative diseases of the eye. How hard was it to learn to trust your dog? I’ve worked as a care aide and done sensitivity training as if I were blind and it is hard to trust a human, that’s why I’m asking. How long did it take you to really put yourself in her paws?
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Submitted by Beth Finke on April 27, 2011.
With my very first Seeing Eye dog I think it took me about a year to trust her. The second dog it only took me three months. I have been with Harper, my third dog, for four months now and find I don’t trust him *completely* yet, but I think that’s b/c I am living in a very busy city now — Chicago — and traffic is more difficult here. So actually, I guess I *do* trust Harper, just don’t trust the traffic!
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Submitted by Lizzi on April 27, 2011.
I’d be interested to hear some more about your challenges in living in Chicago with a guide dog, as I live in Chicago and have a BIL with a guide dog.
And I agree, you should definitely NOT trust the traffic in Chicago. Especially cab drivers. Maybe they should teach guide dogs to recognize cabs and refuse to cross in front of them (only half joking here!).

Photo of Harper lying across Beth's lap on the floor.

Sometimes he thinks he's a lap dog.

The timing for this little threading experiment was perfect for me – the Seeing Eye sent out an instructor Monday to give me some techniques to try with Harper. We’ve been at it all week, and after making some progress yesterday afternoon we decided to take a break. While Harper snored at my feet, I “mingled” online.

In exchange for all this, Bark will place an ad for my children’s book Hanni and Beth: Safe & Sound in an upcoming issue. Bark had me write a guest post for their blog Wednesday, too. It’s about what it takes to be a guide dog instructor, a timely topic since Harper and I have spent so much time this past week with the visiting instructor. More on all that in a future post. Now that my open thread real-time mingling is over, I think I’ll join Harper in snoreland. Zzzzzzzzz…

Hava On April 28, 2011 at 8:59 am

Beth;

I meant to tell you earlier how impressed I was with your comment on Oprah show. Bravo you!

Also want to tell you of a humorous incident i had yesterday related to guide dogs. I am a puppy raiser for a guide dog school. I take my puppy, Dana, with me everywhere they will allow me to. Yesterday Dana and I went to my doctors for a physical. She wanted me to have an x-ray. I went to the reception desk to have that scheduled and while the receptionist made the appointment I could hear her giving the X-ray department all my particulars. Then she dropped her voice low to be confidential-like and told the X-ray tech “oh, and by the way, she’s blind.” Dana does not wear a harness, just a puppy jacket from her school that states she is in training. I guess people don’t read.

bethfinke On April 29, 2011 at 8:35 am

I bet they were amazed when you read the little card they gave you and you knew when your x-ray was scheduled.
Or did they give it to you in Braille…?
Great story!

Bob On April 28, 2011 at 2:26 pm

One day you’re on oprah.com, the next you’re on thebark.com I’ll expect to hear from you at royalwedding.com tomorrow…

bethfinke On April 29, 2011 at 8:37 am

Ah, we were invited, of course, but difficult to get a guide dog in to the UK…!

Stephanie On April 28, 2011 at 8:07 pm

Hey Beth
Loved the Oprah piece by the way. Wanted to let you known that when you mentioned writing for The Bark a few months back I immediately subscribed since I have my new puppy and all. Well, it is a wonderful magazine (love reading the electronic version on my iPad). I also liked their Facebook page where they announced your upcoming thread. How great the circle of life brings me back to you!
Stephanie

bethfinke On April 29, 2011 at 8:39 am

Cool! Had no idea my upcoming “thread had been announced on their FB page. I do love The Bark, always a point of pride to be working with a magazine that publishes articles by the likes of Ann Patchett. I think AP has a piece in the current issue? a great mag…

Annelore Chapin On May 3, 2011 at 2:13 pm

What a great photo!! It makes me want to take a nap like Harper. And and interesting story ….

Thanks, Annelore Chapin

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