A little older

April 3, 2019 • Posted in blindness, public speaking, questions kids ask, Seeing Eye dogs by

Whitney and I were getting ready for our presentation to the second-graders at Chicago’s Francis Xavier Warde school cafeteria Monday morning when the first 25 arrived. “Sit real close,” their teacher told them. “We need to make room for the others.” The kids in front were close enough to strike up a conversation with me as we waited for the rest of the second-graders to arrive.

Watch Whitney lead me out of class.

“We read your book!” one exclaimed. Another piped up. “It was good!” Don’t ask me why, but their compliments made me think of that question a fourth-grader had asked me the week before, during a school visit in Michigan. “That picture on the cover,” I asked the Chicago second-graders. “Does it look like us?” After a chorus of yeses and yeas, one little eight-year-old pipsqueak spoke up on her own. “I’ve gotta be honest with you,” she said. “You look a little older.”

Ouch.

The other second-graders started streaming in then — there were 100 in all — and I gave my short presentation before getting to the best part: the questions from the kids. Some examples:

  • How can you write books if you can’t see?
  • How do you know what you’re wearing?
  • How do you drive?
  • Do you walk everywhere?
  • If you can’t see red or green, how do you know when it’s time to cross the street?
  • How long did it take you to get here from your house?
  • How do you bake bread if you can’t see?
  • What breed was Hanni?
  • What breed is this one?
  • How far do you like to walk with your dog every day?
  • If you were somewhere with your dog where you could use the stairs or take an elevator, which one would you pick?
  • What is your favorite breed?
  • What if there was an escalator?
  • Do you get to name your dogs yourself?
  • Does your husband help you cook?
  • What made you go blind?
  • How do you know what you’re wearing?
  • What is your favorite thing to bake?
  • How far away is your house from our school?
  • Can you get dressed by yourself?
  • How do you swim if you can’t see?
  • When you’re baking, how do you, like, measure stuff if you can’t see?
  • Do doctors have a way so you won’t be blind anymore?

I answered that last question with two words. “not yet,” I said, following up by assuring the thoughtful little girl that even though I can’t see, my life is pretty colorful: I am part of a huge loving family, my husband is crazy smart and always there for me when I need help, I read and write books, teach writing classes, swim laps, bake bread, play piano, go to plays, meet with friends, take long walks.

That last bit, about taking walks, gave me an idea. Maybe it was time to lift the harness on Whitney’s back,demonstrate how a Seeing Eye dog works.

And so, for our grand finale, I commanded “Whitney, outside!” The kids watched in awe as my magnificent nine-year-old Seeing Eye dog led me safely around chairs, bookshelves and children sitting criss-cross applesauce on the floor to the door out of the room. I turned around to wave goodbye, and we left to thunderous applause from the kids. Out in the hall, I got down on the floor to give my dog a hug. “Good girl, Whitney!” I whispered. “We still got it.”

Ira Cohen On April 3, 2019 at 7:40 am

Love it

Beth On April 3, 2019 at 11:45 am

The part where I’m looking older? Or seeing the video of Whitney guiding me out of the room?!

Ali On April 3, 2019 at 7:45 am

I love this! Those school presentations sound like a blast.

Beth On April 3, 2019 at 11:45 am

They are.

Bev On April 3, 2019 at 8:00 am

What a pipsqueak!

Beth On April 3, 2019 at 11:46 am

I know, right?

marlene targ brill On April 3, 2019 at 10:20 am

That looking older thing comes up every so often with author visits, much to teachers’ chagrin. I know it’s time to update photos on my website when contacts at schools look surprised when they meet me. Every few years, my husband reminds me it’s time to update my photo. We don’t have that luxury on book covers. I think you look great then and now.

Beth On April 3, 2019 at 11:49 am

Aw, shucks. Thanks, Marlene. That little girl’s comment did motivate me to do some math. The painting on the cover of Safe & Sound was done, gasp…a dozen years ago.

Diana On April 3, 2019 at 2:19 pm

I love reading about your visits with kids. Always puts a smile on my face. I’m guessing that you gat as much pleasure out of the experience as you give. It is so refreshing to be around kids who are curious and not afraid to say what is on their mind. Love their questions.

Beth On April 3, 2019 at 2:30 pm

You are so right, Diana. I have a ball at these school presentations, and it is refreshing to be around kids who are curious and not afraid to say what is on their minds.

Annelore On April 3, 2019 at 4:05 pm

No matter how we look, staying involved with young children keeps us young. I love reading about your school presentations. Thank you.

Beth On April 3, 2019 at 4:18 pm

You’re welcome. I do love going to the schools, and So much happens during our visits that it can be hard to keep my posts down to 500 words!

Marilee On April 3, 2019 at 4:34 pm

Love the questions and your impromptu conversations! We may be looking older but you have the energy and stamina of a 40 year old!!

Deborah Darsie On April 17, 2019 at 11:47 pm

These audiences keep you on your toes, don’t they?
Some of the questions show how the book or your presentation have affected them in some way.

Beth On April 20, 2019 at 10:00 am

You know, my sister Marilee, who has had a long career as an elementary school teacher, said the same thing about the book. Especially when the kids ask how I bake bread without being able to see — they must have read about that in Safe & Sound.

REgan Burke On May 28, 2019 at 1:17 pm

Vivien Lightfoot goes to that school, you know. I love the part where the kids clap when Whiney leads you out the door. I feel like doing that every time I see her leading you down the street. And I’ve noticed she does a better job than I do because of course I think you can see what I see. Still, after all this time.

Beth On May 28, 2019 at 8:32 pm

The young Lighffoot girl goes there? Wowee!

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